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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Yo, have been using the site for couple of months now although lost my old password and couldnt log in -oops. Got a problem which im sure as always ull be able to offer some helpful advice.

Rite suppose ur round ur bf/gf's house an ur watching tv or somit, how would you go about taking things further and giving them a handjob/fingering/oral pleasure. Which approach do you find the best or wouldnt shock you? u think it helps to talk about it first?? or just make suggetsive comments etcetc??

Ill thank you all in adavnce cos i know u wont let me down.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go in for the Kill!

    na i just usually use a lot of eye contact and playing with the hands that usually does the trick!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i like this aproach: start w/ doing things slow, start kissing, then when ur in the moment, make your move. you could also drop hints, or talk about it. but i prefur just doing it when it feels like the right time, and when ur nice n hott ;-)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What was ur name before you lost the password??

    I'd just start slowly, kissing or something then like move down.. wouldnt bother actually talking about it but maybe some kind of meaningful eye contact as if to ask whether it's ok. You can usually tell from that alone if it's what he wants. Plus they get suprisingly easily turned on so...probably won't not want it.

    Then again, if you're feeling nervous about it you should probably just ask him <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Freya XXXX
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i was down as gio_speedster, didnt make any worthwhile contributions, im making a fresh start.
    When you say eye contact how'd you mean, just like hold their gaze and move down their in that general direction?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya folks <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I would try and start a carry on fight, with pillows or just lightly hitting and pick up the pace until you start wrestling. Then try and lay the smacker on them and then proceed after that, it usually works as the two of yous will be worked up and hyper from the carry on fight and the built up energy from the carry on will turn into sexual energy.

    It has always worked for me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Change the F with the w and you have got me in one :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol wuckfit, love the name!!

    x
    Baby


    I used to be schizophrenic, but we're OK now...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks, i like the kind a play fighting one, ill try and work on that one. anymore, feel free
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    (this was written for a guy)
    from a girls point of view....

    if i were you, i might drop little hints about it, but not too much that it will turn into a conversation, that might kill the effect of things... be a bit spontaneous...
    then when the time, place and mood is right, kiss her gently.. and let your mind take control, so it doesn't seems as if you're forcing your self to do it....
    while you're kissing her, make little moves with your hands, her breast might be the easiest place to start from, that way if she's uncomfortable about it, she'd let you know before you're in too deep.. if she has no problem with this, let your mind take control, and it'll be alright
    okie................

    [This message has been edited by Ms_Booty (edited 21-10-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckfit:
    Hiya folks <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I would try and start a carry on fight, with pillows or just lightly hitting and pick up the pace until you start wrestling. Then try and lay the smacker on them and then proceed after that, it usually works as the two of yous will be worked up and hyper from the carry on fight and the built up energy from the carry on will turn into sexual energy.

    It has always worked for me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    Boys never seem to take this aproach with me but i wish thay would, like in the film '10 things i hate about you' when they are paint balling and then he kisses her. why is it never like this?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey peeps,

    I dont think there is some magic formula for as my friends call it "getting some". Being relaxed and friendly is the key. In terms of physcial stuff once you kissed her move your kisses to her neck and then just go with what feels right for both of you.

    Peace out


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Knew i could rely on you guys, think the key is just to be relaxed, take things slwoly, and play it as it happens so to speak.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if i were u jus catch her eye. Then start snoggin - afta bit - start to touch her breasts etc... if she responds then go down further. If she wants u 2 stop she'll say or do something about it - trust me!

    Have fun!!!

    Ne1 tell me how they like 2 finger a gal pls.....? (im not gay by d way jus wana know what other guys do)!!
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