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tell me I'm awful!
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So you are a painfully shy, lonley anxious person... but alcohol gives you confidence, as uit usually does... you go to a bar with a frriend... next to you is a shy lonley man so you start chatting (you have no interest as you are in a relationship and you let that be known from the begininning)
You start chatting for some reason, ususally because you and your friend have a disagreement aobu t something and you need a third aopinion. You get chatting... you realize that you are sitting in the middle and try to involve your friend as much asyou can.
She says she does't feel well... you offer her ginger, antacids, water... to accpeptacne... she says she'll take a cab home, you say you'll drive... she declines (this while you are still sober)/
This happened tonight... this has also happend on several other occaisons... in my defence, I've spent so many years avoidign poeple because I'm too afriad, scared, would rather die than talk to people, and finally, after many o drinks I have the courage... in her defense, as what i can see... I'm some selfish bith who jus ttalks to random people all night...
I don't know how to apologize... I tried to involve her but obviously it wasn't enogugh... I think of myslef tooo much.
You start chatting for some reason, ususally because you and your friend have a disagreement aobu t something and you need a third aopinion. You get chatting... you realize that you are sitting in the middle and try to involve your friend as much asyou can.
She says she does't feel well... you offer her ginger, antacids, water... to accpeptacne... she says she'll take a cab home, you say you'll drive... she declines (this while you are still sober)/
This happened tonight... this has also happend on several other occaisons... in my defence, I've spent so many years avoidign poeple because I'm too afriad, scared, would rather die than talk to people, and finally, after many o drinks I have the courage... in her defense, as what i can see... I'm some selfish bith who jus ttalks to random people all night...
I don't know how to apologize... I tried to involve her but obviously it wasn't enogugh... I think of myslef tooo much.
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So, let me summarize this. You had conversation with a stranger, your friend was feeling unwell and took a cab home. What is the awful thing about this? Because you wouldn't talk to that guy when sober? Well, big deal 80% of people probably wouldn't. I don't understand it.