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Tolerance
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There was a crazy old man on the bus today, he just about made it upstairs, waved his stick at everybody, mumbled incoherently to himself in his native tounge (Some kind of African i think?) and sat down near the top of the stairs, he was a bit aggresive and tapped a couple of people, what got me was everyones tolerance, sitting there as if nothing is happening, i was fuming and had adrenaline pumping through me but i was staying calm as he hadnt directed anything at me (although the loud shouting was pissing everyone off) , and he was an old man so im not going to hit him, but the thought of restraint or dragging him off the bus crossed my mind.
This went on for a while, then a beautiful girl in gym clothes got up and walked down the stairs and he leant over and spat at her, nobody did shit, a couple of people gasped but that was it. Everyone went back to looking ahead!
After the bus pulled off i went down and asked the driver to call the police cos there is a mad man upstairs assaulting people with his stick and spitting at people, he didnt seem very cooperative but he called it through and waited for police.
I understand people dont want to get hurt and like staying out of harms way but its surprising how many people will just sit down and take it, the thoughts that go through some peoples mind are, will i get in trouble if i drag him off the bus and he brakes a leg or something, if i had it my way people like that would be put down anyway, he was sucking and licking his walking sticks end in a derranged fashion and stroking it like a teddy bear... crazy
This went on for a while, then a beautiful girl in gym clothes got up and walked down the stairs and he leant over and spat at her, nobody did shit, a couple of people gasped but that was it. Everyone went back to looking ahead!
After the bus pulled off i went down and asked the driver to call the police cos there is a mad man upstairs assaulting people with his stick and spitting at people, he didnt seem very cooperative but he called it through and waited for police.
I understand people dont want to get hurt and like staying out of harms way but its surprising how many people will just sit down and take it, the thoughts that go through some peoples mind are, will i get in trouble if i drag him off the bus and he brakes a leg or something, if i had it my way people like that would be put down anyway, he was sucking and licking his walking sticks end in a derranged fashion and stroking it like a teddy bear... crazy
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If he'd crossed the line (the line I define by myself, that is) and (for example) had actually attacked someone, I wouldn't have still been indifferent though.
He had obvious mental problems, oh well, rant over!
You never said what happened. Did the police cone or what?
I don't know what use a cone would have done
On a serious note, I'd like to know what happened after this too.
Yeah... its useful to hit him. Lol na I'm at work on my phone...
Unfortunately, if you decide to act on this (in your situation) it makes you look very stupid if the person is old (maybe has dementia) and black. Some people might insinuate you were just looking for reason to commit a hate crime.
I trust it, that you'd produce a metal folding chair out of fucking nowhere and give him a thorough shoot at his napper at first.
Naturally! Always making sure the chair incident happens while the referee is busy trying to settle a minor, off-camera argument. I am professional, after all.
I feel like I should address you as MajCoatHanger, you are due a promotion from Captain to Major by now?
I've been turning down promotions on alliterative grounds; a professional wrestler is nothing if not his name. And perhaps a clunky catch phrase: "I'm going to hang you like like those clothes I hung the other day".
Or
"Do you want to play a game with my fist? It's called GAME OVER"
I'll teach you some wrestling moves. We'll have you flying off the top ropes before you know it!
Don't you love the imagination of little rachael powerslaming an elderly alzheimer patient through the side window? How exciting.
And dressed as a pumpkin
Its the fact that this sort of thing happens which makes me worry about the lack of compassion for people with mental health problems - which is what the guy on the bus might have had.
Let's all laugh at the nutjob?
:no:
you and matt know me far too well