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What won't you do sexually?
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Lets rule out the obvious (I hope) - Children, scat, beastiality, blood play (True Blood fantasies don't count).
Most wouldn't do the above. But, where do you draw the line when it comes to sex? If a partner you really liked/loved was into, say; piss play, bondage, erotic asphyxiation, etc., would you experiment if it made them happy? Lets assume you discussed safe words/actions previously, so there was no real danger involved.
What are your hard and soft limits?
Hard limits = something you wouldn't try, no matter what.
Soft limits = something you don't want to/don't really have a desire to try, but might under the right circumstances.
Alternatively, if you're into kinky shit - have you ever suggested something that a partner just wasn't into? What? Have you ever convinced one to try it?
Most wouldn't do the above. But, where do you draw the line when it comes to sex? If a partner you really liked/loved was into, say; piss play, bondage, erotic asphyxiation, etc., would you experiment if it made them happy? Lets assume you discussed safe words/actions previously, so there was no real danger involved.
What are your hard and soft limits?
Hard limits = something you wouldn't try, no matter what.
Soft limits = something you don't want to/don't really have a desire to try, but might under the right circumstances.
Alternatively, if you're into kinky shit - have you ever suggested something that a partner just wasn't into? What? Have you ever convinced one to try it?
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All of the above - children, beastiality etc
Humiliation. Domination (being tied down, some name calling etc) is fun but theres a fine line to be drawn there. Things like pushing my head down too hard, constantly calling me a slut and degrading me wont be happening.
BDSM - again a fine line, into it a little but once it gets painful, im out.
Nothing that interferes with my breathing or covers my mouth.
I like to think i am really open minded though and would be willing to try most things.
I like the idea of being dominated and maybe mild humilition would be ok.
Dressing up, role play, facial like i said i guess i am open to experimenting as long as no one gets hurt its just fun isn't it.
Oh god i sound like a really kinky slapper lol
LOL, you say that like it's a bad thing! :razz:
Hehe yea, dont worry, sound just like me!
Like Louise, i wouldn't do anything that restricted my breathing as i suffer from panic attacks anyway! but i wouldn't have any objections to doing it to someone else
umm, thats about it! i like BDSM
Fearne Cotton. EOM.
Really? I'm surprised. She's kinda hot.
Thats what the last 26492928+ guys said afterwards too
I wont do anal sex. Even though I'm curious if it is pleasurable?
I like spanking and recieving a spanking.
I like rough, fast sex. :hyper:
I don't like pain though so if it hurts I want to stop or swap positions.
What about your limits, TintedLens?
I'm sorry, I missed this post first time around!
I have very few 'hard' limits, besides the ones I mentioned in the first post, actually. As long as there's no real danger involved, and no permanent marks left, I'm pretty open minded and experimental.
Most of what I've already tried I've ended up loving, and it gets me off to get someone else off on their fantasies, so it's win/win in most cases.
If there's something I'm not sure about, but not completely against (heavy bondage, or erotic asphyxiation, for examples) I'll usually research it as much as possible and talk to the guy I'm with about it at length before it's attempted.
Sex is all about experimenting for me, and it gives me great pleasure to introduce someone to something new, if they're open to it.
Fucking disgusting.
Oh, now that's just perverted.
Perverted minds think perverted thoughts. Perv. :razz:
:hyper:
Other than that, and things involving the redistribution of faecal matter I think I'd try anything, if I haven't already
Its weirdly enticing to me...................