What a guy really means when he says... (or at least what I mean)

Former Member

Well being as guys have recently been taking stick about what they say and what they mean, I thought this thread would give girls the ideal chance to ask us lads what we really mean. so go on then girls, ask away.

Dk

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I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!

Former Member

What exactly do u mean when u say:

"I just wana stay friends cos i love u 2 pieces and ur my best mate but i know uve been thru a helluva lotta shit and i dont wana hurt u or abuse u, walk in and out of ur life and let u down like every other man. U deserve more than that. I respect u 2 much to do that and even tho thereve been times when we nearly got in on i think its better that we didnt cos we wouldnt have the friendship we have now. Anyway u can do better than me. Ure normally with like 20 yo , im 17. What have i got to offer u??"

Is that like he said or more i just dont like u in that way?

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Former Member

Originally posted by SexyCinderella:
What exactly do u mean when u say:

"I just wana stay friends cos i love u 2 pieces and ur my best mate but i know uve been thru a helluva lotta shit and i dont wana hurt u or abuse u, walk in and out of ur life and let u down like every other man. U deserve more than that. I respect u 2 much to do that and even tho thereve been times when we nearly got in on i think its better that we didnt cos we wouldnt have the friendship we have now. Anyway u can do better than me. Ure normally with like 20 yo , im 17. What have i got to offer u??"

Is that like he said or more i just dont like u in that way?

"I'm too lazy for a relationship, and just to make sure I don't get one here are all the excuses I can think of". No doubt he goes and finds someone to screw a few mins/hours/days later.

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I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.

Girl-From-Mars

turtle, you're so goddamned positive!!!!

SexyCinderella, it might be just what he says. i know im not a bloke, but im still a human being! from what i can tell from what you said, it sounds like he cares about you a lot and in fact doesnt want to hurt you or put your through more shit if it doesnt work out, and maybe he values your friendship too much to want to risk losing it?

not all blokes are bastards!!!!

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Former Member

Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:

not all blokes are bastards!!!!

I do my best.

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I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.

Former Member

Originally posted by Turtle:
I do my best.

It's wankers like you who give us nice guys a bad name <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; J/K

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Former Member

as much as i hate to admit it i gotta agree with GFM on this one, those reasons are all perfectly legit and unless its under specific circs i'd take em for what they are

Girl-From-Mars

whaddya mean, you hate to admit to agreeing with me?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
whaddya mean, you hate to admit to agreeing with me?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

He means what he said lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.

Former Member

well that answer, from mine and other good guys points of view (BH, you are int hat category) it seem as if he is actually trying to see it from your point of view. He wants to be in a relationship, when at the time of starting it is just about you 2. then he can deal with your problems as a boyfriend. but be4 that he is trying to do whats right, and pretty much pulling it off at them moment. What do you want?

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I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!

Former Member

Hows about: "Im buying this house for US! I love you and I want to get married to you,have babies with you,and live happily ever after with you!" Is he genuine? I just find it so amazing that I've found such a perfect guy; something tells me theres a male translation,waddya think???

Former Member

well I say this to my g/f and I mean it.

Former Member

ok well it int really a prob or cause 4 concern but i was just wondering what it means when u r getting a bit frisky or summmot if u suck their cock or ne thing else really good and imideatly they say they love u??

all this may sound wierd but i was just wondering <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; so ne answers????

ps: its kinda like they feel ablg=iged 2 do it.

Former Member

hmm... i do this sometimes. it's usually cos i get guilty that she's doing so much for me and I don't know if I'm doing my bit to explain how I feel about her...

...if that makes any sense at all! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

Former Member

kind of makes sense!!!

but sometimes when he says it i think nothing of it but then other times i does he only say these things cos he wants me 2 carry on doing sexual things 2 him.

it is so anoying, cos sometimes when we r getting down 2 things it feels like all hes interested in is satisfying himself, ne way we just had an argument so i dont care wot he says 2 me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (i do really!)

Former Member

LOL ok jollizie ive noticed this too with some of my ex's when theyre gettin all randy and im doing something really nice to them or lettin them do something to me and theyre really lovin it,

theyve gone aww lee i love you so much u know, n then ive thougth ermm do you or are you just sayin that because im lettin u do this with me or im doin this to you,

is it me you love or is it the feelin in ur cock ur loving now,

i sort of get the impression its the feelin in their cock they love the most and this isnt me being a pessimist or lookin on the down side thie is because most of the guys i go out with dont really give a shit about me

im just a fuckin shag piece and i think im gonna have another male h8 day today <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; for no specific reason at all just because i feel like it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

Former Member

god i think u r my twin!!! thats exactly how i feel, i mean its nice 2 hear someones feeling 4 u but sometimes its just at the wrong time!!!!

do u have a bf at the mo??? i go through them mal h8 days and just end up having a go at jamie all the time!!!

Girl-From-Mars

i see what youre getting at lee and jo, i guess it can seem insensitive or like theyre only enjoying the sex. but i think you dont have to be pessimistic about it, it could be just that its an intimate moment, and not just them expressing their gratitude for the sex or whatever, maybe they just feel a rush of love for you at that time. i know im like that, it had crossed my mind that it was coming across as me just saying "i love you" coz of the situation, and not really meaning it, but ive never said those words without meaning them, at any time. so i think its just the physical closeness making you feel how much you love the person.

well thats my interpretation anyway <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Yeah i know what u meant but i mean it in the other sense, its more like i dont know cos im making them feel good they wanna say they love me or feel they should or it just comes out,

and sometimes when i know they dont really love me at all it really fucks me off cos im like ermm ok you dont even love me and to say it when im doing stuff like this with you just makes me feel shit because its not me you love at all its just sex,

and when they do love me and they say it when were having sex i dotn mind but like with some guys they dont really tell you they love you much and then they do when your doing stff ad its like oh you can say it while were shaggin but not the rest of the time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

oh i get irritated thinkin about stuff like this because it makes me think of a few certain men who i dotn like thinkign about and pisses me off when i do because they are wankers omg help me now b4 i really start slagging a certain few people off!!

Girl-From-Mars

i know what you mean lee, ive not experienced it myself but i can totally see what you mean. i was just putting another point of view in, but i agree with what you said too!

ill just shut up now lol

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