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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
OK guys, say your out on the town at a club or something with your girl and a group of friends. Some girl within the group is really hot and being highly flirtatious with your girl. She's polite to you as well but not flirtatious. Your girl normally doesn't do this kind of thing but is feeling pretty spunky and has always been comforatable around other girls. She looks over at you for a. approval for the next step or b. to see if it turns you own or makes you upset so she knows to stop. What is your reaction? Would you be jealous or give her the thumbs up to go further?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would give her the thumbs up because there would be nothing you could do to change her mind.. ;);)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Waaaat? You wouldn't even be jealous that you couldn't join in?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lexxie*
    Waaaat? You wouldn't even be jealous that you couldn't join in?

    That would be the first question I would ask! ?can I join In? lol but if she refused then yea I would let her go on ahead!!:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Would you let her do the same with a guy? Cheating is cheating regardless of sex.

    I wouldnt be with a girl who is that disrespectful in the first place so i dunno what id do...Probably just walk off.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd let her, its a wonderful seed from which a glorious tree could grow ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I was allowed to join in that itd be a threesome,w hich is fine in my book if everyone is OK with it.

    But if I wasnt itd be cheating...it dont matter if the otehr partner is man, woman or martian, its still cheating and its still wrong. Fun is one wthing, having no respect for the otehr partner is quite another.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would never let my man get it on with another guy. I would be bloody shocked if he wanted to, in which case he'd be whoosh!, outta there.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would never have a threesome. I'd only want my girl and if she wanted a girl instead of me I'd be gutted.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think I would either. I don't like sharing my men :mad:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm with Kermit: threesome or nothing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle
    I'm with Kermit: threesome or nothing.

    Now theres a statement that could be taken the wrong way ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Now theres a statement that could be taken the wrong way

    lol

    I would be jealous and I don't think I want her to, if we are in a club in front of my friends I wouldn't want her to do anything like that

    She may as well have the words easy ,slut stamped on her head

    If on the hand she doing it for me for a B-day gift and we are in our bedroom behind closed door I'm more then willing to let her do what she likes with another girl as long as I can watch and join in
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Balddog


    Now theres a statement that could be taken the wrong way ;)

    Goddammit, I was eating then!:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit


    Goddammit, I was eating then!:p
    Eugh me too. Damn. Feeling not so hungry now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    .

    Fuck um both
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If it was my man i wouldn't be bothered but it would have to be me join in or nothing im afraid. I know my man wouldn't mind especially if it was my best mate. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ebb
    its a wonderful seed from which a glorious tree could grow

    A giant, sexy lesbian tree!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If my girl (if I had one) wanted to go with another girl I`d be ok with it, but if she wanted to go with a bloke i'd be pissed and say NO NO NO ABSOLUTELY F**KING NO!

    Why?

    One simple reason, I would never fanticise about her with another bloke. I mean, this is every red-blooded male's biggest fantasy! Woman on woman action, can't beat it!
    Even if I couldn't join in (and that would be my first request) the mere thought of her with another woman would fuel me for months!

    Of course, I can't say for sure what my reaction would be if it really happened (oh please, please let it happen. I`ll never spit on church grounds again. Promise :-) ) but this is what I think my reaction would be.

    Of course this present of gigantic, galactic, orgasmic proportions is only presented to many few Jedis. God bless the force!)

    (I swear to god I don't know how Jedis and 'the force' got in to this one!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think I'd ever want my boyfriend (hypothetical :() to go off with someone else be they male or female.
    I'm not the best at sharing and get jealous at times so I would point blank refuse to let them go off...at least, I wouldn't let them do anything without me. :p

    Still, I think that if you are willing to let her go off with another girl you should be the same about letting her go off with another bloke. Only fair. :p
    But I can't share and don't fancy women so this problem will never pop up for me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Talyn
    I mean, this is every red-blooded male's biggest fantasy! Woman on woman action, can't beat it!

    No its not, and yes you can..

    Woman on Balddog action beats woman on woman action every day of the week for me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have been in that sort of situation before, only it was with one of my friends... I personally don't think that it's that big a deal, because there is no possible feeling involved. It's like getting off with someone you don't really fancy cos you're drunk, only the diference is you'll never EVER fancy them. None of my boyfriends have ever complained in the past... provided they could watch!!! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My g/f has expressed a desire to try girl on girl, but has also said that theres no way she'd want me to do the same.

    Her original plan was just to do it on her own, but after hearing my opinions she conceded as far as me being present while it was going on.

    I say anything she does I should be able to do. I mean, its just sex (so i'm as likly / unlikly to make an emotional attatchment to a third person as my g/f is), but if one of us is allowed an experrience then the other should be as well.

    So Basically I say we go find a 3-some.
    g/f says fine, as long i don't have sex / recieve oral from the 3rd party.
    I say this is not fair.

    So its been left for the time being, but i know my g/f feels i'm being unfair on her.
    We've turned down 3 3-somes / group sex opertunities so far this year :(

    Any advice as to what i can say to help her see my side? or Anything i need to hear to understand hers?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No your gf wants her cake and eat it!!

    Lets face it girls always get what they want, You may as well give in, your fighting a losing battle.

    She sound like she being a little childish about it, But then a lot of girls are when it comes to seeing a blokes point of view!

    I do agree with you tho, It is unfair. but its life and girls always get what they want, ‘Tis sad but true”

    You better get use to the idea of her receiving sex/oral and you just watching from the side lines, Just like watching a porn but you can smell the coffee:rolleyes: :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Lets face it girls always get what they want
    Yep yep. Well, I do anyway. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think when I wrote this scenerio, I was picturing this as something the girl friend doesn't usually do but half the reason she is willing to is to get a rise out of you the boyfriend. So their is no reason for jealousy, she enjoys it but a big reason she is doing it is to please her man. The other girl like I said is the only thing preventing a threesome b/c she seems more into your girlfriend, but who knows where the night could end.

    Me personally, I'd have no problem as long as I could watch. I think it would be a total turn on and really hope my girlfriend would enjoy it. I'm sorry, but I just don't see another girl as a threat like I would a guy. Another girl flirting around with mine is more like foreplay to me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wouldn`t you be worried that she might satisfy your gf more than you do?

    I know I would!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bandit4911
    wouldn`t you be worried that she might satisfy your gf more than you do?

    I know I would!

    me too mate, me too

    You could be playing with fire as well.
    I think when I wrote this scenerio, I was picturing this as something the girl friend doesn't usually do but half the reason she is willing to is to get a rise out of you the boyfriend. So their is no reason for jealousy, she enjoys it but a big reason she is doing it is to please her man. The other girl like I said is the only thing preventing a threesome b/c she seems more into your girlfriend, but who knows where the night could end

    Well you can't block out your feelings, If you felt nothing then would you truly love your gf in the first place

    I know this is Imagine scenerio but I can't see how you could love someone and not mind seeing them with someone else?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've been in similiar situations many times and never felt that way. Unless a girl is destined to be a lesbian, they usually aren't going to be completely satisfied by a girl. Nothing can fully replace a penis. I just never was the over jealous type.
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