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am i autistic?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know thats a thesite page, but thats crap information. Its been proved its nothing to do with the MMR
    I agree. It's pretty appalling in fact that this info is still on the page - someone please fix it ASAP. There's enough misinformation still floating around, even now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for pointing out your concerns woooah and suzy, I'll bring it up with the editorial team tomorrow.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lea_uk wrote: »
    Who has said that people don't have sex?

    society does.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    something feels very familiar here
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know thats a thesite page, but thats crap information. Its been proved its nothing to do with the MMR

    Yeah. That's really bad that that's still on theSite. The doctor responsible for that and me getting fucking rubella last year was struck off yesterday and surprise surprise gone to the US.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    something feels very familiar here


    What does?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote: »
    There has to be some allowance of understanding to respond in the way the OP has as well?


    Respond in which way?

    If you think that I am not being clear, well human interaction always is two-way. Please end the teenage ethics. I'm 26, not a teenager.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    Please end the teenage ethics. I'm 26, not a teenager.

    Then, as an adult, why have you not taken this up with your doctor?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you do come across as a bit autistic
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jim V wrote: »
    Thanks for pointing out your concerns woooah and suzy, I'll bring it up with the editorial team tomorrow.

    Just to let you know that the article has been edited. For those who may be concerned, that whole section is a high priority for a complete overhaul.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you do come across as a bit autistic

    How so? because i am formal in my tone? I am who I am. You cannot and should not change that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    Then, as an adult, why have you not taken this up with your doctor?

    Because I haven't got round to it yet.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    How so? because i am formal in my tone? I am who I am. You cannot and should not change that.
    I cant put my finger on it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, there is nothing wrong in formality of language, is there?

    Perhaps appreiciating complexities and differences in the world around you is key. This is how things are. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    Because I haven't got round to it yet.

    So it's not really a bother to you then. Which is good.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    Well, there is nothing wrong in formality of language, is there?

    Perhaps appreiciating complexities and differences in the world around you is key. This is how things are. :)
    im not insulting you. Youre the one who said you thought you were autistic. Im only agreeing with you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    So it's not really a bother to you then. Which is good.

    it does bother me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not insulting you. Youre the one who said you thought you were autistic. Im only agreeing with you.

    But you haven't said why. You only laid down a hunch, not anything concrete.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Evenstar wrote: »
    if it helps, think of it as a sliding scale: on one side is total social incoherence, and on the other side is the most empathetic person you've ever met (it is more complicated than this, I know). We are all on the autistic scale somewhere, but being 'autistic' is where you are too close to the difficult side.

    Have you looked at Aspergers Syndrome?


    No, I have not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    all of you are collectively dismissing my point. i thought this was a forum for advice, not the expression of ego and unfounded psychology (like saying which opinion here is of value). learn some tolerance and healthy interaction. I may reckon I have autism, but if you are healthy you should have realised that from birth.

    I want the same common wisdom as everybody else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    all of you are collectively dismissing my point. i thought this was a forum for advice, not the expression of ego and unfounded psychology (like saying which opinion here is of value). learn some tolerance and healthy interaction. I may reckon I have autism, but if you are healthy you should have realised that from birth.

    I want the same common wisdom as everybody else.

    We cant offer founded psycology as none of us are trained professionals.

    Quite a few people in here have shown you tolerance.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    do you understand social interaction? why do you expect people to grovel to you? all interaction is equal, and others are under no obligation to immediately accommodate you. again, you are saying my issue is nonsense. Who are you to say this? And under what authority? Adapt to norms of human interaction.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    do you understand social interaction? why do you expect people to grovel to you? all interaction is equal, and others are under no obligation to immediately accommodate you. again, you are saying my issue is nonsense. Who are you to say this? And under what authority? Adapt to norms of human interaction.

    I dont expect people to grovel to me.

    I'm not saying your issue is nonsense.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not saying your issue is nonsense.
    For what its worth, since having 2 of my children diagnosed with it, I see it in a lot of people. I think theres a hell of a lot of undiagnosed autistic people out there who still manage to lead good lives. They may just have people think theyre a bit wierd or lack social skills etc, but in probability, theyre on the spectrum.
    For these people its debateable whether a diagnosis would even be helpful.
    I think a diagnosis is useful in childhood because early intervention is key to getting round some of the issues autistic people have, but im not sure what theyd even do for an adult.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    No, I have not.

    well you should :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    it does bother me.

    Then go and see your doctor. This is a site for (mainly) teens seeking advice or discussion. None of us are qualified to give you the diagnosis you seek and so our advice, again, is to go and see your doctor.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not saying your issue is nonsense.
    For what its worth, since having 2 of my children diagnosed with it, I see it in a lot of people. I think theres a hell of a lot of undiagnosed autistic people out there who still manage to lead good lives. They may just have people think theyre a bit wierd or lack social skills etc, but in probability, theyre on the spectrum.
    For these people its debateable whether a diagnosis would even be helpful.
    I think a diagnosis is useful in childhood because early intervention is key to getting round some of the issues autistic people have, but im not sure what theyd even do for an adult.

    :yes: Someone did once suggest that it's possible I'm austic too (loads of people on dad's side of the family have it) but it's something I've never followed up.

    One of my friends who is autistic is known by quite a few people for being weird. (he also talks far too much)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Although it's true that the most dramatic improvements around ASD's often involves treatment at a very early age there are treatment programmes that do help adults who are diagnosed later in life.

    It's may also be that a label of autism or ASD might not be something negative but could help explain to someone why they seem to find things different to other people. That's a label they can choose to use if they want to or not, but it's possible it could them to explain issues or challenges to people they know.

    It may also help when looking for help through the NHS, or in finding other people with similar issues to discuss what they are experiencing. I think all of that is a personal choice but it's a possible reason why an adult diagnosis may be really useful.

    But again it's a personal choice and something that a Doctor needs to help with. There are organisations and research centres that specialise in helping adults who find out they are autistic later on in life Kira, so speaking to your GP would be a great first step to accessing those services.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not saying your issue is nonsense.


    Yes you are. Learn tolerance and healthy interaction.
    For what its worth, since having 2 of my children diagnosed with it, I see it in a lot of people. I think theres a hell of a lot of undiagnosed autistic people out there who still manage to lead good lives. They may just have people think theyre a bit wierd or lack social skills etc, but in probability, theyre on the spectrum.
    For these people its debateable whether a diagnosis would even be helpful.
    I think a diagnosis is useful in childhood because early intervention is key to getting round some of the issues autistic people have, but im not sure what theyd even do for an adult.

    Undiagnosed in which sense?
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