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fingering
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my boyfriend wants to finger me for the first time, and i already told him that i was ready for that step, which i am. allthough its not his first time(im maybe his second, his first serious relationship was very physical but still a virgin) but it will be mine and im sorta freaking out. i wanna know best place, position, what to do, etc. please help me!
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When you're ready for him to do it just move his hand down, and if at any point you want him to stop then tell him.
Well... that bit. But maybe not the newspaper yeah
And, as Lexi said, relax.
If you've ever done it yourself, it will feel different when he does it. Also, tell him to take it slow to start with, and don't let him shove like his whole fist up there :thumb: Couple of fingers at the most, for the first time anyway
Xx
i might want to update:
he did strat rubbing me today, and almost fingered me but ran out of time because it took him a while to get up the nerve...it was on the bus home from school- not the best place but...
Please don't do it there again .
i would suggest a bed next time
yep, next time bed! just how you managed it on a bus is beyond me...!
I don't know if I could do that and still maintain self-respect (in fact, I know I couldn't, since I did do shit like that, and every time I think about it I cringe inside).
2)get comfortable
3)become familiar with the term "give and take"
4)????
5)PROFIT!