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I do not know what to do ???? :banghead:
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I have found a friend that i really fancied 13 years ago and all of these feelings have come back but she is in a relationship. i get the impression that she is not happy in the relationship but how do i ask her and also should i go for her as my gf because i really love her and i have not told her this yet should i ? ? ? ?
please help me i really do not know what to do ???? :banghead:
please help me i really do not know what to do ???? :banghead:
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I would just be there for her, be her friend and if things to go wrong with her bf then go for it but for the moment, if she says she's happy, and doesnt give you any hints that wants help then accept that
So, I think you should tell her how you feel (if you are friends) tell her you like her as more than a friend. BUT make it clear to her, you don't want to ruin her relationship with her boyfriend.
Good luck :thumb:
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If I was the bloke who is going out with this woman, bad relationship or not, id be fuming if I was reading this thread and I knew the people it was about. Plus you have a girlfriend, while you may be having these feelings about someone you fancied 13 years ago, the feelings may be valid, but do you know this person the same now as you did then. Did they feel anything for you back then, what do they think of you now?
Its hard to suggest you do anything without knowing many of the factors which would make any choice of yours clear to yourself anyway.