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My best friend
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I dont like the way my best friends boyfriend treats her. Shes barely even allowed to talk to other guys cause she "flirts" (shes one of the least flirty people i know.) He went for a drink with one of his ex's (who was trying to split them up) and she pulled him up about this, not cause she was jealous, but because hes a hypocrite. If she had an ex she would definately never be allowed to talk to him (hes her first boyfriend) When she pulled him up about this he said she "had a repuation" and he "has his reasons to be paranoid." He constantly calls and texts her, gets arsey when she cant reply cause shes at work or in class. I want to show her this isn't healthy, but dont know how to without risking losing her.
Should i just keep schtum and put up or is there anything i can do?
Should i just keep schtum and put up or is there anything i can do?
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Invite her round one night, and gently nudge the convo towards the subject of if she's happy etc.
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She may at first be defensive and especially as this is her first boyfriend its very easy to be so loved up that any bad word said against him is ignored but better to talk to her than sit back and do nothing