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Ready 2 av sex but.....

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi 2 everyone im new here!

Anyway i was wonderin if u cud help me...
i av been seein my boyf for 4months now and we havent yet had sex yet. I absolutely love him to bits. We were nearly gna av sex b4 but he didnt av anything so we didnt (hes already made that mistake and has a kid to prove it)! Anyway the otha nite everything was perfect, we were about to do it but he cudnt get an erection. He sayz its becos of his past relationships. I was ok wiv this, but now i duno wot to think. Im so scared that wen somit does happen between us hes gna be comparin me to his ex girlfriends n thats really startin 2 upset me. I wana tell him how i feel but im scared he'll think im daft, do u think i am being daft? its killin me to think that hes done all this b4 as im new to it all. I really need sum advice about this one if u dnt mind....?
Thanx a lot
xxxxxx

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe you're just really ugly. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    He could just be nervous cos it's a new girl that he's sleeping with, or he's too excited, or he suffers from premature ejaculation, or he's impotent.

    Or maybe you're just really ugly. <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ROFLMAO, you're evil DM. Lol, Cinders, maybe he is nervous because it is your first time and he wants it to be special for you?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he's a guy. he has an ego. so he doesn't want to mess up <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    seriously, that is most likely the problem. you don't need to worry about pleasing him; he should be worried about pleasing you! you're losing your virginity, and while it's unlikely to be wonderful it can be improved by affection and romance and the rest . . .

    you're not being daft at all. if he doesn't know it's your first time, for God's sake tell him. tell him anything you're worried about.

    and good luck <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We have an article here:
    http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/other_sex_issues/impotence,_aka_erectile_dysfunction.html

    I also suggest you do a search of the boards becuase this has been asked a number of times before.
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