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B-A, you can do such, such better then Jordan. Dont let it get you down too much.
Jordan - I dont know, how about keeping it your pants until you decide who you want to stick in, eh?
Hiding the fact he is cheating... I wonder if this is anything to do with Stacey being told.... HmmmmMmmm.... interesting.. well hopefully he has learnt he cannot have his cake and eat it,
either way good riddance..
...And all the personal messages too. Oh Jordan! You can't hide from poor Stacey forever.
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*hugs*
Usually i hate the C U Next Tuesday word. But here it fits!
I'm not surprised at all that he has had everything deleted, and i wouldn't be surprised if he set up a new account in a months time complaining that he had cheated on his gf and he wanted her back.
Yeah. B-A - you've done nothing wrong here.
I'm glad you never had the chance to meet up with him.
Jordan - when you read this, because I know you will, I hope you are truly ashamed of yourself. You are a coward and a fraud and I hope you get what's coming to you.
B-A - I hope you are going to be ok. He isn't worth worrying about now. He's made his bed and one day he will have to lie in it. PM me if you ever need to chat.
And it wouldn't suprise me if he already has a new account.
I would like to say, though, Jordan is a very sweet person when you get to know him and I know he works hard to achieve things (Like GCSEs ect.) But sometimes, I guess he works hard to achieve the wrong things. I think he finds it hard if there is no-one their to tell him they love him, and things like that. His relationship with Stacey is also long distance, and I know he finds it hard.
The thing is though, this isn't the first time he's cheated on her. My only question is why did I even think it would be good to get in a relationship with him in the first place?
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Everybodys been there, and you shouldnt feel bad about it as you cant help who you fall for
Heh, this kept me amused all afternoon.
I hope your OK B.A. As other people have said your much better off without him.
Just thank fuck hes gone.
Did no one actually like Jordan apart from me then?
And, yes thanks I'm okay. Deleted my pictures of him earlier, well apart from one and thats only for if Stacey gets in touch with me and needs proof he is a lieing cheat.
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That said, and not to sound patronising here, most of us here are a bit older and are generally sceptical because, at least for me, a lot of us have been bitten by those who claim to care about us - you always believe you can change them but leopards rarely change their spots. This is why we told you to be careful, and I really am glad this happened now, before you two had met, rather than several months down the line when it would hurt a lot more.
I'm glad you're waiting for Stacey to get in touch with you rather than the other way around - it's a bad idea to tell her before she finds out from him. But if/when she does get in touch with you be honest with her, and don't blame yourself for this. It's not your fault. He is the liar and he is the cheat, you are not in the wrong for believing in him. When we are told things we have been longing to hear, we all want to believe them and you are not a bad person for doing that. You aren't the one who would be hurting her - he is.
Again, Jordan - when you read this, I hope you're planning on telling Stacey all about this. If you aren't you are even less of a man than I thought you were.
B-A - seriously, if you need to chat about anything, just PM me. I have sort of been in your position and I know how much it hurts.
I'm not one of those "I won't like him if you don't like him either" type of guys and hadn't any sympathy for him since the beginning, tbh (guess you would find that in my post history too), on the other hand, I didn't like you a lot either at the beginning, but I guess you are cool for a 12 year old
And I guess you are cool For a boring adult
hehe
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na in all seriousness I do not think anyone on here will miss him, he was not welcome - and yes I know the mods will go "everyone is welcome" but by the majority of posters he was not...
BA you should be thankful that you saw him for what he really is rather than for what he wanted you to believe he is!
Chin up and dont let a clown like him get you down.
Who I do really feel for is this girl Stacey who it sounds like does'nt even know half of the shit that he's done,and from reading a few of his posts I doubt he is the type of guy who will ever be truthful to her or any other females hence deleteing all his incriminating posts lol seriously Jordan you need help!(btw I know he will read this he wont be able to stay away)
For him to ask to get all his posts and threads deleted is just him covering his back so he can lie even more and I find it wrong to let that happin.
I was a member of some other site before and someone asked to delete all his posts but that site would'nt let it happin cause of something to do with soon as something has been posted its the sites property so they dont have to mass delete posts every time someone spits out there dummy,but nothing stops someone from manually deleted there own posts thou.
Just wondering is that a usual thing hear when someone asks for all of there posts to be deleted does it generally happin?
I just thou he was a prat :wave:
Was so full of contradictions he didn't seem real.
He did lie a lot on here, and that really annoyed me. That was probably the one downside to him, that you (or I at least) couldn't tell when he lied. :crying:
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I think when he moved his lips(typed) was generally when he lied lol joke.
I'm the same I take people at face value and usually believe what people say but experience has taught me that that is'nt always a good thing cause there are alotta BS hitters out there.
Anyways you live and you learn,and hopefully you move on and become a better person.
Just 1 lil piece of advice,when he gets back in touch with you don't believe his BS! once a BS hitter always a BS hitter!
I'm not, B-A asked a question, whether people liked him or not, I replied which what I personally felt towards him or the general atmosphere I got when speaking to people about him...
I will gladly admit I did not like him, however we did see eye to eye on a few subjects, regardless of that I have no problem admiting I do not like anyone who thinks it is ok to cheat and lie to those he supposedly "cares" about, from everything I have read with regards to him he does not care for anyone but himself, he does not know the meaning of love, his purpose for anything was purely selfish
Cassidy, given the topics discussed on the website we can't ethically publish content if people have asked us to remove what they've posted, hence the account was deleted.
* Just to say I've reopened this thread now people might have calmed down a bit. I'm not looking for people to ignore what's happened but I don't want people using this thread to create more aggression or anger towards someone who has left. I'd like this to be a space to help someone with a difficult time. So please show some restraint to avoid crossing into areas that'll make things difficult to keep it open.
I text him to say sorry and stuff but didn't get a reply.
Kinda wish he would still speak to me though, I do miss him
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