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Anyone want to talk in private mail about depression and stuff?
Feeling rather odd and lost atm =/. Feel like i shouldnt be struggling and i should be done with all this hurt by now, but im not. I want to stop self harm and other stuff for good, but then sometimes i dnt wnt to and i feel crazy. Help?
Any advice is welcome and appriciated
Thanks =/
Feeling rather odd and lost atm =/. Feel like i shouldnt be struggling and i should be done with all this hurt by now, but im not. I want to stop self harm and other stuff for good, but then sometimes i dnt wnt to and i feel crazy. Help?
Any advice is welcome and appriciated
Thanks =/
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I'm not sure if anyone PM'd you, so just wondered how you are now?
It's great that you want to make changes in your life, that's the first hurdle to get over - you have the will to stop and change. What makes you say that you should be done with all the hurt now? Have you set yourself a target for 'recovery'?
Do you have anyone that supports you - professionals, friends, family, mentors?
Take care and keep posting
yeah one person did,
thanks for caring
I guess i mean i just wish i could be better all at once and tht everyone expects me to just get over it and i cant ):
I have like dates that i know i need be "normal" and "healthy" for and im trying but its really hard
My parents dont know, I have a church mentor and a councellor, but im not sure if the councelling is helping so i might stop. They help, and two of my best friends are supportive, but one of them doesnt really understand and the other one is in hospital at the moment.
Thanks for replying
xxxx
I know you can get through this, you are an amazing person. Everyone goes through hard times, ours is just now, you'll get through this and it will make you stronger as a person, and life will be amazing. If you ever wanna chat im here babe. x
thanks. just doesnt feel like it. ):
My Parents have seen it now,
and i dnt know wht to do
i feel like ive failed them so badly
anyone know what i can do?
I feel so bad :crying:
i think my dads angry
i just dont know how to cope
i cant explain to them cus i cant explain to anyone
just wish it would all go away
Sounds like you're feeling isolated at the moment and finding it difficult to believe your parents can understand where you're coming from. It can be really tiring keeping up a pretence that we're okay when we're not! And hard work trying to work out what's going on and how to change things too! I know I hate being stuck.
Is there anything you can do to take your mind off things? Perhaps something you do you enjoy - exercise, making music - what do you enjoy?
Keep posting - people here really know that everyone has difficult times and thats "normal" :wave:
It just seems so hard and i cnt get my mind of things
Any ideas wht i can do?
If anyone else has any good ideas let us know!
:wave:
Im doing ok but its all urges, all the time, when is it gunna leave me alone?
I just wish my parents understood, or didnt know at all
Its like all i ever do is the wrong thing.
Anyone got any tips?
Thanks for everyone whos helped so far
Its just so hard and i dnt know how to cope
ive lost my appetite even more than normal since my parents found out and everythings been so crazy
Those people on here who talk with me through mail will know wht my relationship with food is like anyway, but now i just dnt feel hungry at all
Is this normal?
PLEASE REPLY ASAP, just kinda need to know =S
thanks
Everything feels so odd atm and im pretty lost tbh. I want it to all go away. And i always let people down. I never seem to sleep.
It just hurts, it all hurts
Here if you wanna talk
xxx
I like pretty much rely on my ipod at night tbh and I like writing stuff down sometimes but sometimes i find tht so hard to do
Its just so hard ):
Feel like im in a bit of a nightmare, dnt wna put specifics on here tbh but yeah
It's hard, but don't let yourself be put off by that, it won't last forever.
And you're not alone:)
xxx
Feels like forever tbh =/
Just feel stuck here, alone, shaky, lightheaded, stupid and like i fail alll the time, hurting tbh
dont know what i would say =S
Don't be scared, the samaritans are all volunteers who only want to help anyone in need. If you feel like you can't talk to someone over the phone, you can also email them: http://www.samaritans.org/ If you don't know what to say, maybe try writing it down first?
Hope you feel better soon.
Im grateful for your private mail, hope it all gets sorted and im here if you need to talk
Maybe i will try it online, im really bad at talking on the phone and wouldnt it show up on the phone billy thing?
Has anyone ever tried samaritans online or childline's messaging thing?
If so did it help?
Im still scared to but i might try it when ive worked up the courage
thanks everyone
Everything hurts
Feel really really low.
Panic setting in.
Temptation taking over.
Eyes Prickled with tears.
5.5 years, Will it ever go?
Hello i do know how your feeling as i suffer from depression to . Are you having any coucelling or on meducation it can really help to see a gp who can give you theapy and meducation have you got anyone who you can talk to face to face such as a parent or even a teacher at school? Please email me again if you ever need to talk im here to help people i use childline as well and i help and support people on there to. Its good to know that you want to stop self harming to do this you need to go to your gp they can help you i self harm as well your not alone!
Im always here if you want to send a private email!
xxx
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