going soft after cumming

BillieTheBot

Hi all,
after giving advice for so long I decided I need some help.
When Im with my gf I have no trouble getting it up the first time or last lnog enough for her to cum.
My problem is that after I cum it takes me ages to go hard again meaning we dont get a repeat performance for sometime. does anyone know of anyway I could make myself hard again quickly? It isnt urgent but it would be nice to give her a 3 hour long session from time to time!

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Girl-From-Mars

the same happened with my boyfriend, i couldnt believe some of the stories ive heard where people immediately go at it again!

instead of trying to make it happen twice, what we did was just try to prolong his orgasm, just slowing down from time to time if we wanted it to last longer. and all manner of teasing and foreplay helps make it a much better orgasm, i cant imagine 3 hours of just constant intercourse would be *that* enjoyable, id much rather have a lot of foreplay, kissing, cuddling, touching, stroking, licking etc (use your imagination!), and take it REALLY slowly and then when you do have actual intercuorse, do the slowing down technicque to make it last longer.

i think i heard somewhere that if a bloke clenches his buttocks it makes him feel like coming less! not sure how true that is...

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Former Member

Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
the same happened with my boyfriend, i couldnt believe some of the stories ive heard where people immediately go at it again!

instead of trying to make it happen twice, what we did was just try to prolong his orgasm, just slowing down from time to time if we wanted it to last longer. and all manner of teasing and foreplay helps make it a much better orgasm, i cant imagine 3 hours of just constant intercourse would be *that* enjoyable, id much rather have a lot of foreplay, kissing, cuddling, touching, stroking, licking etc (use your imagination!), and take it REALLY slowly and then when you do have actual intercuorse, do the slowing down technicque to make it last longer.

i think i heard somewhere that if a bloke clenches his buttocks it makes him feel like coming less! not sure how true that is...

I can last a fairly long time the first time, usually half an hour to an hour or so. But sometimes my gf is up for it again not long afterwards, so I need a way of getting hard quickly.
Any more ideas?

Former Member

Hmmm I can but it hurts, i if u do it more than 1ce it really starts to hurt.. second time aint even that nice.. feels like ur bruised down their.
Wouldnt bother if I was u

Girl-From-Mars

find other ways to satisfy her, they can be just as enjoyable, if not more so <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Former Member

Hola,

If you want my advice, when you're done start cuddling and kissing and stuff in a relaxed manner, and let your willy take some rest for a good 15-20 minutes. This means don't even touch it!

My experience is that if you let it take it's "rest" size and let all the blood drain from it for a few minutes (like I said, 10-15-20) then afterward you'll be ready to go again.

But if you keep it half up half down for a while, then I can garantee you won't get hard again, at least not enough to make it enjoyable since the muscles blocking blood inside down there will be tired.

Anyways, these are my 2 cents... I'm no expert, but I can tell you that a good 10 minutes break and then grabbing her butt fromm behind while she's standings up against the wall... well... does the trick for me!

Cya!

DropD

Former Member

Wow, I'm COOL now? Yeeha!

Former Member

Originally posted by DropD:
Wow, I'm COOL now? Yeeha!

No, you're still crap. Glitch in the system.

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I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.

Former Member

Originally posted by Turtle:
No, you're still crap. Glitch in the system.

Crap? Thanks a lot, that is so nice to hear.

Former Member

Perhaps if it worries you that you don't get another erection quickly, it becomes like a self-fulfilling prophecy. In a way, you're trying to force yourself to be ready for more sex and as your body isn't up to it at that moment, you might think you are having dysfunctional problems. But if you allow yourself to have extended foreplay for the next session, your natural desire will give you a natural erection ... and you'll soon be ready to shag agin. But then, I don't know much anyway. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

Former Member

5 viagra pills and your good to go!!

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Former Member

I've managed to keep my b/f hard only a few times, and this tends to lead to a second orgasm a minute or so later.

Former Member

My longest session was 9 hours - but that was mostly a relaxing thing.

Former Member

Most guys go soft after ejaculation. For some reason (and I'm not complaining either) I don't. After I go, I'm still hard, and can go at it again within 5 minutes if i wanted to, it just takes a lot more for me to cum. On the rare occasion, i will go soft, but with enough teasing from her, its right back up there.

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Former Member

Hi Apollo, haven't seen u around for a while. Did ya see we might be having a "meet" in the summer?

Will u be able to get over from Canada?

j9

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Former Member

Originally posted by apollo:
Most guys go soft after ejaculation. For some reason (and I'm not complaining either) I don't. After I go, I'm still hard, and can go at it again within 5 minutes if i wanted to, it just takes a lot more for me to cum. On the rare occasion, i will go soft, but with enough teasing from her, its right back up there.

Yeah that's the exact same with my boyfriend

Former Member

Me and my ex had a strategy, it takes about 10 mins for me to 're-charge' so in that time she'd stick some hardcore porn on (Where'd she get that she never told me!!?) and she'd leave me for five minutes then perform felatio until I was hard again. Mostly this was done in the 69 position so I'm pleasing her, and in the first five minutes she'd be using her toys... so the flow isn't interupted, and the pleasures change, the longest we ever kept this up was 5 1/2 hour... I have 3hours of that on tape!! (However due to the way we split up it is painful to watch, and no you can't have a copy however it may concern).

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