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my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and bought a house together 2 1/2 years ago. during the "honeymoon period" for the first two years everything was perfect and we were practically joined at the hip. i didnt expect the relationship to be like that forever, and i made it very clear that i wanted him to spend time with his mates and that i didnt expect him to by my side 24/7, but now my boyfriend is spending most of his time at his mate's house and i rarely see him. my main concern is that he smokes a lot of cannabis, but as he knows i don't like him doing it, he doesn't smoke near the house. i am worried that is the reason why he is spending so much time there, either that or he has gone off me! when i try to talk to him about it he shows no interest and seems to be more comfortable when we're not speaking. his only defence was i hog the tv. what the hell is going on, and can we salvage our relationship. in the past 2 years we have become more and more distant. i am particularly interested in responses from lads. thanks dani.