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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fair enough Big Gay, it is pretty confusing down there and you've got a good excuse not to be totally clued up on it :p

    But take it from me, weewee does not come out of the vajayjay.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And I nominate myself for post of the year for that last pearl of wisdom.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's been 'a while' tbh

    :banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ahmad Khalaf wrote: »
    Hi MB1010,

    I honestly don't see it's a good idea nor do I see it's healthy or normal to do anything like this! There's a reason why sexologists only recommend having vaginal intercourse and not anal sex.

    I can only imagine that your girlfriend, the receiving partner, doesn't enjoy it but if she does and you, the penetrating partner, also don't see it's wrong then men, in general, might as well become homosexuals as I don't see the difference between the two.

    People have sexual intercourse for two reasons only:

    1. To bear children, and
    2. To make the receiving partner feel that she's loved through the pleasure of the natural vaginal intercourse.

    Therefore, how can we determine the logic behind such an act, and why is it that people insist on doing it? If there's no intention of wanting to be a parent and/or knowing for sure that anal sex can only hurt the receiving partner, in addition to the fake pleasure which is obtained by the penetrating partner then why doing it in the first place?

    Regards,
    Ahmad Khalaf

    This is your own oppinion and this is true in alot of religeon, but i beleive sex should be fun, exciting, and experimental, u live once and if you fid some1 you love then you should be able to do anything with them!x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ahmad Khalaf wrote: »
    Dear Hellfire,

    There is a good reason why we should take each other seriously, if we're talking about safety and feelings, shouldn't we agree at least to some of what was said early on?

    You're saying that my knowledge in sex is very limited, then why don't you ask specialists yourself, do some research on anal sex, and find out all about the disadvantages and then call it a fair game?

    Regards,
    Ahmad Khalaf

    Every one is entitled to a oppinion and u should never be called names because u dont share the same opinion with some1! thats a form of bullying x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ahmad Khalaf wrote: »
    I honestly don't see it's a good idea nor do I see it's healthy or normal to do anything like this! There's a reason why sexologists only recommend having vaginal intercourse and not anal sex.

    Do you smoke? Do you drink tea or coffee? Do you ever eat junk food? Do you ever not get enough sleep?

    Lots of things may not be 'good' for you - but they are still pleasurable.

    Performing anal sex with someone while a condom is worn carries LESS risk of passing on a disease or a STI than kissing.

    Regrettably, I suspect that your views stem more from religious dogma than rational thought.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why doing it in the first place?

    because its :thumb: and makes me :D even if it makes her :eek: and i always :shocking: quicker anyway so :) have a nice day :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    JordanScene wrote: »
    Tell me why your god, desided to put the most orgasmic and pleasing G-SPOT up, a guys arse then? Explain that one.

    exactly - spot on is you catch my drift. My guess is that he's never tried anything like it and therefore is not really in a position to judge others.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Who are the sex experts? Sex experts are the ones doing it, and doing it well, and doing the things you might not read about in books. Well, I do but then I read horny books.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anal sex has to be a personal choice and agreement between 2 consenting adults...if they both get pleasure for one reason or another...then why not? I had anal sex lots with my ex-girlfriend and it was great fun! :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    People have different opinions I guess. Original Poster may not like the idea of anal but he may love his women wearing spandex g strings.

    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    little_tiny_flower wrote: »
    People have different opinions I guess. Original Poster may not like the idea of anal but he may love his women wearing spandex g strings.

    :)

    I think you'll find the OP does want anal sex ...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think the guys name says it all. (The one who is being all negative and a fool)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    I think you'll find the OP does want anal sex ...

    Oops my mistake, I thought that Mr Ahmed was OP ;)
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    Dr PirateDr Pirate Posts: 8,303 Legendary Poster
    Dear everyone.

    Bums need love too.

    Regards,
    Dr Pirate.

    PS. Yes, I am a Doctor.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    for someone thats never had anal sex ahmad's head seems to be spending a lot time in his own ass
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    daokie wrote: »
    for someone thats never had anal sex ahmad's head seems to be spending a lot time in his own ass

    I think he's looking for his G spot!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Listen guys i think your being abit hard on the dude! everyone has different opinions, you know?

    Ive tried anal sex, i cant stand it. It hurts and makes me feel ill- on the other hand i have a friend who cant get enough of it!
    anal sex is like marmite- either love it or hate it.
    Many people have different views on the matter, in my opinion if both parties involved enjoy it and practice it cleanly- theres no problem!
    If a woman is doing it just to please her man, and doesnt enjoy it then i think it would be harsh to make her continue doing it!
    it feels differently for different persons and one cant say "oh you shouldnt do it because it MUST hurt..." no, its different for everyone.
    If there is a god i have no idea why the G-spot is put up the anus on men... NO idea what so ever...
    However the G-spot is up the anus... so shouldnt it be the men receiving anal rather than giving it?? :chin:
    Granted, the anus is tighter and makes males :shocking: quicker, and im neither saying anal sex is good nor bad.. im just throwing in a few ideas to what people have said already.

    Ahmad, i agree, in religious terms sex was created for reproducing...
    but you cant tell me everytime you have sex is because you want a child or to make someone feel loved??

    I have sex because..... I freakin LOVE it!! I have no intention of having children for a fair few years... but hell ima keep having sex on a regular basis because i cant get enough of it.

    If these are your views i respect them completly, your entitled to your own opinion, but please dont come on here saying whats right and wrong- like ive said weve all got different opinions on the matter. Whats wrong to you might be SO right to someone else ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dr Pirate wrote: »
    Dear everyone.

    Bums need love too.

    Regards,
    Dr Pirate.

    PS. Yes, I am a Doctor.

    Friggin LOL at this!:thumb:
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    Dr PirateDr Pirate Posts: 8,303 Legendary Poster
    x</3x wrote: »
    Friggin LOL at this!:thumb:
    Why thank you very much. =)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's better if you use a condom...
    It's common that anal sex can cause shit to enter your dick hole.
    Also anal sex is quite dirty literally, So yea use a condom?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dr Pirate wrote: »
    Dear everyone.

    Bums need love too.

    Regards,
    Dr Pirate.

    PS. Yes, I am a Doctor.
    Only just seen this but :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I absolutely abhore anal sex. It totally turns me off so that I hate sex now. I loved sex for loving and for fun. Now I just hate the thought of even being naked.. My man whom i told on second date that I don't do that held me down and anally raped me yelling who are you saving it for. since then insists on it. He has the nerve to get mad cause I just lay there. I hate it it has no purpose what so ever except to ruin my sex drive. I am confined to giving him blow jobs and being anally raped. There is nothing for me no kissing or touching or anything, no vaginall sex either. He says my pussy is worn out. I hate sex. This sucks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dragonelle wrote: »
    I absolutely abhore anal sex. It totally turns me off so that I hate sex now. I loved sex for loving and for fun. Now I just hate the thought of even being naked.. My man whom i told on second date that I don't do that held me down and anally raped me yelling who are you saving it for. since then insists on it. He has the nerve to get mad cause I just lay there. I hate it it has no purpose what so ever except to ruin my sex drive. I am confined to giving him blow jobs and being anally raped. There is nothing for me no kissing or touching or anything, no vaginall sex either. He says my pussy is worn out. I hate sex. This sucks.

    Woah, this is a seriously unhappy situation. Why are you still with a man who rapes you? Do you want to leave him?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh god thats awful. Cant you leave him somehow?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ahmad Khalaf wrote: »
    Dear MrG,

    I really don't see the need to call my comment a stupid one, simply because people would view anal sex from various point of views.

    When people view it from the religious point of view as to be done only with the wife, are you actually going to oppose him/her? Maybe you shouldn't.

    When people view it from the moral perspective it is just wrong because you and I both agree that it's unclean. Wouldn't you then rather avoid dirtiness?

    Also, women have the same rights as men. Let us say that men enjoy it and they don't care about cleanness nor morality, do you think that women would enjoy it at all? I bet they don't, and when they agree to it it's because they are pressured.

    Let us discuss these issues without making any personal attacks, and if we have anything to say let us put it on the table and talk about it.

    Thanks for your post MrG, and I also appreciate your welcoming me after registering.

    Regards,
    Ahmad Khalaf

    Read some sexological texts. You're talking nonsense.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    little_tiny_flower wrote: »
    People have different opinions I guess. Original Poster may not like the idea of anal but he may love his women wearing spandex g strings.

    :)

    Anybody can think/believe anything.

    But there is a difference between opinion and fact. Opinion is saying that anal sex is icky. Fact is to say it's pleasurable, for both men and women who receive (so to speak).

    The guy needs to do more research on the matter, since he is saying that anal sex is never pleasurable.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kira wrote: »
    Anybody can think/believe anything.

    But there is a difference between opinion and fact. Opinion is saying that anal sex is icky. Fact is to say it's pleasurable, for both men and women who receive (so to speak).

    The guy needs to do more research on the matter, since he is saying that anal sex is never pleasurable.

    It's not fact to say that it's pleasurable for both men and women who receive it, what the fuck are you talking about?
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