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Wanting Marriage for future
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. Through this time we have been through so much together. He has been previousely married now divorced and I have been dealing with her calling him for the two years we have been together. He is from Sweden and I am from Australia, I moved to Sweden with him to start a new life, his ex wife followed. I live in a crappy little house, trying to learn Swedish, haven't made any friends this town is really small with hardly anybody my age. I have said goodbye to all my friends and family back home and I want to know that it's worth it. I said to him I want to get married within 1-2yrs, and do you see that with me?, he replied no I don't think of marriage, maybe we can do it 4-5yrs, but he's not sure. I am thinking of going home and he isn't jumping over a bridge to stop me. He says he has issues but they are effecting me. Am I crazy to walk away from a happy relationship because he doesn't want the same future as me????Or is he crazy for letting me go because of his commitment issues????:no: