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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I am in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. Almost everything is going brilliantly - and will doubtless continue to do so - but for one problem - when we have sex, it ends in frustration and disaster. This is because, although we are good at the missionary position, we try other more adventureous (and difficult) positions but without success. Therefore, should we continue to work on the missionary position until I climax (and until we master the position)? Is the missionary position a good introductory position?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mobily:
    <STRONG>I am in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. Almost everything is going brilliantly - and will doubtless continue to do so - but for one problem - when we have sex, it ends in frustration and disaster. This is because, although we are good at the missionary position, we try other more adventureous (and difficult) positions but without success. Therefore, should we continue to work on the missionary position until I climax (and until we master the position)? Is the missionary position a good introductory position?</STRONG>

    Absolutely it is. There is nothing wrong with this position, as long as you both are enjoying it. Experience comes with time and the more you practise the more relaxed you will feel about trying other positions.

    The best thing to do when you do try new positions is not to worry about it and actually laugh about it when you fall into that heap of tangled limbs. Laughter is as much a part of lovemaking as touching and talking.

    You will find that certain positions will become easy over time and some are just plain impossible, unless you are contortionists <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeh i would say it is the best to start off with (well its all i ever done) lol .
    Butt yeh im sure once you get used to it and get to know each others bodies much better, trying new position wont be so difficuly, and should be fun.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont try and skate before you can walk <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Missionarys a good starting point, if you want to try somethign else get your gf to lie on her tummy and enter her from behind. Its as good as doggy but so much easier <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Just have fun and laugh when you foul up. It happens, sex is an art and you need to master it. You wouldnt expect a baby to paint like Monet <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yep I would say that, that is the best one to start off and once you get more experience you will be shaggin like that guy in American psycho!!!

    I was pissing myself at that bit!!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    If you dont know what am talking about go and get the video, you soon will!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi there... bit pissed so hope this makes sense!

    look, i'm engaged to the most sexy and fulfilling woman in bed, and we're always at it ;-)

    we've been together for four years now, and *still* the missionary is our favourite position. i kid you not. there's a reason why it's the most popular. it's the most comfortable for both of us, it feels really good, we can look into each other's eyes, and our hands can still wander everywhere we want them to!!

    of course we do other positions, but after a while we realised there was only:
    1) bloke on top
    2) girl on top
    3) side by side

    that's it!! they're all just gymnastic variations of the above. Our second fav is probably "the lock of love" which is where you start in the mish and then roll onto your side (the girl brings here legs up for support). she likes it cos it's more of a 'hugging' feel... cosier.

    don't be worried if you stick to the missionary, unless there's something you really dont like about it.

    good luck... and remember there's no hard and fast rules for sex, except be safe and have fun ;-)

    HTH,
    olly.
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