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Abusive relationship?
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Would a person shouting in your face, making you feel stupid, pushing you about, calling you names and treating you like rubbish be classed as an abusive relationship? Sorry if that sounds daft! I would just asumme that an abusive relationship is like violence etc..
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Most definitaly.
Relationships don't have to be violent to be abusive.
All domestic violence is abusive, not all abuse is violent.
I was in an abusive relationship for years, and the worst thing about it was the psychological abuse, the ways he belittled me and undermined my confidence and made me feel worthless and so dependent on him.
The cuts and bruises healed much more quickly than the mental wounds did.
I've never pushed anyone or hit anyone etc but i've been known to loose my temper and shout a lot..
I would advise anyone to get out of an abusive relationship as soon as they possibly can and to seek help immediately.
Just because they can't help it... does not mean it's correct behaviour.
And your saying you practice perfect behaviour all the time? 24/7?..
I'm just pointing out from my own experience that sometimes the guy may not be at fault.. i know i've said some horrid things in the past to people after i've been wound up enough or if i've been backed into a corner.
I'm not saying that's the case with the OP and this thread.. just in general.
It's unfair that someone who may make a mistake once would get branded as an abusive partner.
What's abusive is you adding me to facebook and then not talking to me anymore.
Otherwise if you're more comfortable talking to someone, you can call the Womens Aid National Helpline on 0808 2000 247. You can talk completely anonymously if you want to, and the women who answer the phones have a good understanding of abusive relationships. They won't pressure you to do anything you're not happy with, but they can give you a friendly ear and some information to think about.
Best of luck.