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What did you after you left uni?

Says it all in the title really.
What did everyone do after they finished uni? I'm about to start my final year, and have no idea what to do out in the real world afterwards! I could go travelling, start work, do more studying, there's so many options. And then, do I go back home, or stay in my uni city, or go somewhere new. There's so many options! How was leaving university for everyone else?
I guess this thread is more for ex-students really, so not sure if it's in the right place, but hey ho.
What did everyone do after they finished uni? I'm about to start my final year, and have no idea what to do out in the real world afterwards! I could go travelling, start work, do more studying, there's so many options. And then, do I go back home, or stay in my uni city, or go somewhere new. There's so many options! How was leaving university for everyone else?
I guess this thread is more for ex-students really, so not sure if it's in the right place, but hey ho.
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Ok. So, i just failed my second of uni. I have 8 retakes (thats £320 to me and you) but i cant only do 6 out of 8 (2 filming projects that after a bout of swine flu just werent happening.)
Anyway, i woke up and realized that its not the end of the world. And I will finish uni but i have no interest in being there. Im looking forward to graduating so i can be free.
Im planning on going traveling. There are some people who dream of getting a certain job, theres other people who dream of getting married and having kids but im one of those people who dreams of being an international bum lol. I just want to travel and thats my only life goal/plan/idea.
Anyone else have that? Anyone else just waiting to find something to be passionate about?
I did my bachelors in Bristol, then moved to London to do an MSc in Public Policy at UCL. It was an eye-opener to be studying in such an international environment, as Bristol tended to be a bit white, southern and middle class (although I did love it to bits). I also did an internship with an MP at the same time, which was a great experience. After my masters I decided to continue in academia and return to history, and so wrote my thesis on post-1945 German refugee camps. It was a wonderful opportunity to do the research and an excuse to travel a few times to Germany - and I'll actually be going to Goettingen next month to deliver a paper at a conference. I don't think I regret it as such, but I do think I would have made it easier financially for myself if I'd have got a 'proper job' straight after my masters and not now be job hunting in the middle of a bloody recession.
Also, advice to anyone about to start a PhD - take every opportunity to grab teaching experience. I ended up only doing one semester's worth in my third year (partly because I was doing the PhD long distance so travel was complicated) and turned down the chance to teach earlier this year (because I assumed I'd already have some sort of full time job by then and didn't want to end up letting my uni down by pulling out. Ironic, huh?). I now find myself in the position where I don't really have the experience to be a viable candidate for lecturing positions (not that it stops me applying!) but part time, hourly stuff seems also thin on the ground - I wrote to a whole load of London/ SE universities in April with my CV but only got lukewarm 'we'll keep your details on file' type responses. I'd be so much stronger right now if I'd taught on even a couple more courses - so LEARN from my mistake!
That's another thing that's bothering me, I just can't see myself moving to a new city, say London where most job opportunities seem to be, without knowing anyone.
I lived in the same town I went to Uni, however I moved out when I was 21 and bought a house with my (now) wife.
I think taking a couple of years to find your feet whilst living at home is a sensible idea, don't think I could ever go back though lol.
Initially (when I had a proper, grown up job), I moved in with my (now ex) boyfriend. When that all went horribly wrong I moved back into my Mum's house, stayed there for 18 months or so to save to go travelling, and since I've been back I've been back with my mum. It's not for everyone though, I've got a great relationship with Mum and she still annoys me sometimes... Nor is it a completely free ride, I pay living costs (but not actual 'rent'). It seems to work for us but it depends on the people involved.
I'm now working there full time and aiming to finish my uni degree next spring if I can handle the workload (two courses + thesis). It'll just be for my ego as not many graduate jobs offer the same salary as I'm on now. I also think it'd be hard to go back to doing the 9-5 routine
I moved back home when I quit uni about two and a half years ago. I was always dying to live on my own though but it didn't happen until this year when I started living with my boyfriend.