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i know its sounds funny lol
when i was with a girl she was giving me a bj and she put her finger up my bum sorry i dont know what other way to put it lol at the time i didnt care i was really drunk but thinking about it now is that normal for a girl to do that
as it happened to the guys on here or as a girl on here did it before
when i was with a girl she was giving me a bj and she put her finger up my bum sorry i dont know what other way to put it lol at the time i didnt care i was really drunk but thinking about it now is that normal for a girl to do that
as it happened to the guys on here or as a girl on here did it before
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Pahahaa ewwww!
Tbh I dont think i'd ever have the guts to do it, unless the guy asked.
Thats what a lot of lads tend to think that anal play is for the gay boys when in fact lots of people do it to their bf's!
He eventally agreed and we havent looked back since. He loves it, although he would never mention it to his mates or anyone... its like its our little secret and that were doing something naughty.
I remember the first time I did it to him, I used lots of lube to help ease my 1 finger in haha. He screamed like a girl but within a min he climaxed and he said it was one of the best feelings ever.
I think it's fun to do but dont do it all the time...
But lads do have this thing about it being ''gay'' so I wouldnt worry at all! its normal... it's just you dont hear a lad boast about getting it done to their mates hehe
not interested at all ^^
Dude, its a finger - not fisting.
And you don't have to be gay to enjoy it. It will give you a very intense orgasm if the finger manipulates your G spot - probably more intense than you have ever had.
I've never done it to anyone before, but my bloke has kind of hinted he would like me to do it to him. I'm totally open to trying it, but have never done it before so am kind of nervous about getting it right! Ideally I would ask him at that moment whether he wants me to do it or not, but I also get the feeling he doesn't want me to ask as that would kind of spoil the magic, he wants me to just go for it. Eek. I think I might have to get some dutch courage.
So, how do I go about it? Technique advice would be much appreciated. Do you just use one finger? And do you just go straight in there quickly, or ease it in gently?
(I realise that last bit might sound silly, but I have found on the few occasions I have been bummed, it hurts less if they just push it straight in, and taking time trying to be gentle prolongs the pain.)
I would say, go slow to start with!
Indeed.
:yes:
lolololol
I dont get it, you just slide down the stairs on a mattress while teabagging?? :eek2:
I used to love sliding down the stairs when i was a kid but yeah I don't think its a real thing
Use one finger to start with! make sure your nails are trimmed hehe.
Just ask him if he likes it when your doing it, there is only one way to find out.
When I do it to my bf I tend to be doing oral on him then about half way thru do the finger up the bum.
It's good to do tbh if you want it to end quick, trust me they come very quickly if you are wanking them or sucking them off whilst putting your one finger up the bum. This is what I have found anyway but all lads are different!
The only problem seems to be that getting the lube out will spoil the surprise somewhat, and from the little hints he's given me about it, he wants it to be a surprise. Hmmm.
Blindfold?
latex gloves are often a good idea too, with lube, it makes a very smooth entry
I'd love to go to the supermarket and just buy loads of things like a toilet brush, gloves, electric toothbrush, lube and loads of condoms and a pregnacy test! I would just wanna see the workers face lol