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how can i stop all this fighting and get back to how we used to be :(
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i was just after some advice really
me and my partner have never had many problems but lately all we do is argue and scream and shout. its getting so bad we even broke up for a while were back together now and everything was ok for a bit but then it started again
i would have walked away from him alot sooner if it wasnt for the feeling i have for him and he has said the same thing. i keep thinking maybe i should get out of this relationship for the benefit of the both of us but i just love him too much to give up
everything is also turning a bit physical aswell we always seem to be having sex but not like what it used to be
i want a night in just us two with no other people (as we live with my sister her baby and my brother in law) as there is always someone around and with no sex
my sister bro in law and baby are going away soon so i thought this would be a great opportunity for us to try and get back on track but i dont know what to do i would just like some advice of things we can do when we actually have the place alone just to try and get back to how we used to be. i just want us to chat and connect again with no sex or fighting
any help no matter what would really be appreciated thank you x
me and my partner have never had many problems but lately all we do is argue and scream and shout. its getting so bad we even broke up for a while were back together now and everything was ok for a bit but then it started again
i would have walked away from him alot sooner if it wasnt for the feeling i have for him and he has said the same thing. i keep thinking maybe i should get out of this relationship for the benefit of the both of us but i just love him too much to give up
everything is also turning a bit physical aswell we always seem to be having sex but not like what it used to be
i want a night in just us two with no other people (as we live with my sister her baby and my brother in law) as there is always someone around and with no sex
my sister bro in law and baby are going away soon so i thought this would be a great opportunity for us to try and get back on track but i dont know what to do i would just like some advice of things we can do when we actually have the place alone just to try and get back to how we used to be. i just want us to chat and connect again with no sex or fighting
any help no matter what would really be appreciated thank you x
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I really hope things work out, esp as ye love each other. Thats really important. Just take it one day at a time, & be kind to each other.
If you're both prepared to work through it you will be fine, but you have to understand what is causing the arguments. This will involve being very honest and might not make for nice listening. But it's worth it if you're prepared to go through it.
i think my partner is really tyring to fix things aswell as he is going on about us two going abroud for a few weeks as a break. this makes me feel alot better as i know im not the only one trying and he wants to fight for me aswell which sounds stupid but makes it a little easier.
since i posted my post on here we had a good few nights but again we had a massive row only after one or two nice nights together and again he was drinking.
do you think that the drink is the main problem in our relationship
thanks again for your comments x