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1st time??? Would you???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I need your help, i was going out with this boy and we got on really well. Anyway, he wanted us to you know and i agreed the only problem was he wanted to do it in a park in the afternoon, i thought this was pretty disgusting cos there could have been kids about and i don't exactly want to lose my virginity up a tree so anyway i told him it wouldn't go ahead with it and he started saying "where else we gonna do it?" "My ex done it, why can't you?" He also said i was a frigid bitch and he dumped me. The problem is, i still really like him...was he right in dumping me? Should i have just done it to satisfy him? Am i better off without him? Please reply...a miserable gal. x x x

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hes a stupid wanker and it should be obvious to you that he couldnt give a shit about you and just wants you for sex. Even if you had gone ahead with it he would have dumped you anyway cos hes a sad little boy with no respect for women. So stay clear of him and find someone who actually deserves you, and let some sad slut get used by him instead of an intelligent woman like yourself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    honey get over him - he's trouble! u can do better!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx guys, thats made me feel so much better! x x x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats so bloody cheeky, you should have got him up that tree then kicked his ass out of it and said something nasty. He has no respect for you or your wishes so tell him to get lost...people like that annoy me... <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I reckon everyone is 100% right about that prick. You might fancy him, but do you really want to go out with a bloke like that? He's obviously made a habit of this kinda behaviour and a leopard, in my experience, don't change its spots.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    foxi_8itch,
    He wasn't right dumping you this shows that he doesn't love you he was just going out with you 4 you know what.
    Your better off without him he was using you.
    Forget about your feelings for him, your first time must be special but boys don't realise this.

    [ 22-02-2002: Message edited by: mingo ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">@mingo. Just for the hell of it.

    Be glad he dumped you, the guys a wanker.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    who on earth would want to have sex up a tree with children watching? i mean the guy must have problems!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, you are definentely better off without him. He sounds really sick and needs slapped! Any bloke should respect his girlfriend and aim to please. You can do much better. Forget him, don't waste your time. You want to do it with someone you like and who makes you happy. Don't be forced into anything. <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He sounds horrible!! Be glad you didn't give into him!! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nasty piece of work.
    glad you didn't get too involved
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what a wanker i hope you smaked him one

    xx deeby doo xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This guy is obviously a real loser with no respect for women. Any man who break up with someone over her not feel comfortable about something sexual is not a real man.

    I am a living legend.
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