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This ties in with a post, but just thought I'd write here.
I've never had sex and am 24, but am pretty sure it's best to wait til I meet the right girl.
But with the first time if I just talk to her it should be ok.
It's likely she'll be more experienced (this is of course hoping I have a girlfriend one day) but then maybe she'd like teaching me and be happy I waited.
But I mean I think I get the general idea of what you do, but i'll save the kama sutra stuff for after the first time.
But I mean if I just take it slowly and treat it as a learning experience and with someone where trust is involved it shouldn't be too scary.
However I would definitely like to lose the weight from the medication I have been taking as I think that would make me feel more comfortable naked in someone else's presence, although it's not like I mind being naked on my own, but I don't think losing a stone will do the confidence any harm - i'm sure if you feel you look good that radiates and there is psychological link between weight and how you feel about yourself.
I've never had sex and am 24, but am pretty sure it's best to wait til I meet the right girl.
But with the first time if I just talk to her it should be ok.
It's likely she'll be more experienced (this is of course hoping I have a girlfriend one day) but then maybe she'd like teaching me and be happy I waited.
But I mean I think I get the general idea of what you do, but i'll save the kama sutra stuff for after the first time.
But I mean if I just take it slowly and treat it as a learning experience and with someone where trust is involved it shouldn't be too scary.
However I would definitely like to lose the weight from the medication I have been taking as I think that would make me feel more comfortable naked in someone else's presence, although it's not like I mind being naked on my own, but I don't think losing a stone will do the confidence any harm - i'm sure if you feel you look good that radiates and there is psychological link between weight and how you feel about yourself.
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You shouldn't be worried about things like that, you will know when you have found the right girl. Being in a stable relationship is one of the main things that makes your first time specail. There are many other people who are in the same situation as yourself.
(sorry if there are any spelling errors, I find spelling difficult)
Crying-angel x
I presume trust is a big part of having sex ?
lol yer
ok thanks. Yeah everyone is different. I think it'll just happen when it happens and I doubt anyone worth it would be that bothered - they'll respect me and won't care I haven't got much experience.
Keep it safe , dont mess it up.:)
as for weight that is up to you if you dont feel comfortable then you do that but when you find miss right she wont be bothered about your weight
good luck for the future
and i wish i would have waited x
I guess nothing is the be all and end all. But like you say maybe if I meet someone in a few months or whenever she will be glad I waited.
My friend said not to jump in cos I could regret the decision with who I sleep with, so if she is right I think it is much better with a girlfriend than a one night stand
rofl! MR G would love to hear that! :P