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The Ex Issue, I need help!
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I've found the boy of my dreams. I am determined to spend the rest of my life with him. Unfortunately, he has an ex that he was with for almost two years. He lost his virginity to her and I lost mine to him. It really breaks my heart to think that she will always have that part of him. I'm new to the sexual side of our relationship. I know I'm not at the point where I make him as happy (in the sexual sense) as she did and that tears me up inside. What can I do? As much as he says he doesn't want her or think about her, I can't help but think that there is a part of him that wants her to please him.
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hows it going?
Thinking about all this....does he feel the same way about you? Is he over his ex?
You read any of the sections via this site....they may help and they do have their very own mods that are in tune with things to.
He is not with his ex now though?
I am so sorry that you feel that you not adequate for him....I am sure that isnt the case. Have you tried to talk to him about your feelings...it might help?
Talking with him will help I hope.
It seems to be pretty much all in your head, to be frank. Paranoia is a terrible disease.