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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    According to a book I'm reading, thanks to evolution women have evolved to be insecure about their appearance so they obsess over it in order to maximise their chances of passing on their genes, and men have evolved to be insecure about their 'power' with regard to their access to women for the same reason. Something to do with in caveman days the most powerful man gets breeding rights and picks the most beautiful woman. So women's perogative is to look pretty and men's perogative is to be the top dog.

    How much that applies these days with our socialisation is up for contention etc. but it's always going to be difficult to convince women (generalising) that they don't need to obsess over their appearance just the same away as you can't convince a man he doesn't need power (perfect example, if he is 'challenged' to a fight, often it can be hard to talk him into backing down, because he needs to prove he has the powah lol).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dear girl with sharp teeth,I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT NO ONE GIVES A S-T ABOUT THESE PERFECT LOOKING GIRLS!WHEN BRAD DUMPED JENN,SHE LOOKED PERFECT!HE DIDN'T CARE!AND NOW BRAD DONT GIVE A S-T ABOUT ANGIE EITHER.HE'S JUST STAYING FOR THE KIDS,AND THE PUBLICITY,OF COURSE(the main reason he betrayed jenn for her was the publicity,NOT for her,no matter what type of crap brad says,he CANT BE TRUSTED,HE LIED AND SAID HE LOVED JENNIFER ANISTON ONCE). also,did you know that joe jonas DUMPED the beautiful and PERFECT looking taylor swift?please google her name and see what she looks like. she's gorgeous! she's so gorgeous she EASILY scores magazine covers. the olsen twins are pretty and perfect looking too and NO ONE CARES! THEY'RE BORING! when tom cruise dumped nichole kidman SHE LOOKED PERFECT! AND TOM DIDN'T GIVE A CRAP ABOUT HER! i dont know ANYONE who gives a crap about nichole kidman! and that guy who married her only married her because the publicity was good for his career and vice versa. so you see,no one gives a crap about those pretty and perfect looking girls.please,spread this around.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What on earth?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dear girl with sharp teeth,I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT NO ONE GIVES A S-T ABOUT THESE PERFECT LOOKING GIRLS!WHEN BRAD DUMPED JENN,SHE LOOKED PERFECT!HE DIDN'T CARE!AND NOW BRAD DONT GIVE A S-T ABOUT ANGIE EITHER.HE'S JUST STAYING FOR THE KIDS,AND THE PUBLICITY,OF COURSE(the main reason he betrayed jenn for her was the publicity,NOT for her,no matter what type of crap brad says,he CANT BE TRUSTED,HE LIED AND SAID HE LOVED JENNIFER ANISTON ONCE). also,did you know that joe jonas DUMPED the beautiful and PERFECT looking taylor swift?please google her name and see what she looks like. she's gorgeous! she's so gorgeous she EASILY scores magazine covers. the olsen twins are pretty and perfect looking too and NO ONE CARES! THEY'RE BORING! when tom cruise dumped nichole kidman SHE LOOKED PERFECT! AND TOM DIDN'T GIVE A CRAP ABOUT HER! i dont know ANYONE who gives a crap about nichole kidman! and that guy who married her only married her because the publicity was good for his career and vice versa. so you see,no one gives a crap about those pretty and perfect looking girls.please,spread this around.

    Agreed with Lea - WTF?!?!?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Eeeek

    Diplomatic - might be worth er, spending some time taking a deep breath and counting to ten then posting?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems like all major male celebs are bastards, eh? OMG!!! Like O NOES!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't really blame Pitt though. I'd rather set fire to my own eyelids than have to spend a night stuck in a room with Aniston's screeching.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    toasting in an epic bread.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to the OP, from your discription your body sounds absolutly fine. Listen to your bf he obviously loves you a lot. Those "perfect" celebs spend thousands improving and maintaining their apperance! It must be so dull...I would rather get out and have fun, and so should you! Stop worrying about how you look and have a laugh with your friends and your bf and you'll realise how little it all matters. If you still feel down about it a manicure, spray tan or getting your hair done can all make you feel good about yourself. And going to the gym a couple of times a week can really lift your mood. Good luck and be happy!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel wrote: »
    Seems like all major male celebs are bastards, eh? OMG!!! Like O NOES!!!!

    I'd quite happily relax my no bastard rule if Brad Pitt wanted too although he wouldn't bother, not enough publicity for him :chin: I'd draw the line at Joe Jonas though, he looks a right Osmond cheesyball.

    Pisstake aside, that post made me laugh. I guess in a weird way it did make sense, under all the angst. Basically it says pretty and perfect girls get dumped too. Which we all knew anyway since everyone gets dumped at some point in their life, it's character building! :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I thought I'd drag this thread back up to comment on this model.

    She has stretch marks, cellulite and a bit of flab around her middle (mostly from losing a lot of weight). She's wearing an unfortunate pink thong. But she's bloody gorgeous.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She definitely is Kermit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Helena Christensen once said, 'There's no ugly women, just lazy ones.'

    This is true. The fundamental elements of female beauty - bright eyes, glowing skin, shiny hair, nice smile - are accessible to everyone. Eating a good diet and drinking lots of water is a start. Attractiveness isn't just a physical element either, it comes from within. It's hard but try and think confident, and you're instantly more attractive to others.

    Meanwhile take care of yourself, body creams, make-up, whatever it takes. Make the most of your best features and you'll play down your worst ones.

    As for the weight thing - men hate skinny women. I KNOW - I lost a lot of weight due to stress/maybe even a borderline eating disorder and now many of my guy friends tell me they can't look at me anymore, let alone fancy me! Men like to touch. Women should be soft not hard and bony. Look at Scarlett Johanson and Nigella Lawson for example... both curvy. Plus even Kate Moss has put a bit (ok a miniscule amount) of weight on and looks so much better for it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Shes beautiful. What happened to Kermit, did he close his account?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yep Kermit asked for his account to be closed.
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