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We're falling apart...
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My friend and I only met a few months ago, and our friendship has been really strong since day one. We've been through ALOT together, suicide attempts and so on, but recently we seem to argue, and spent half our time in silence. We both recognise that it's happening but neither of us know what to do about it. I don't want to lose her, because she's the closest person to me, but am i being selfish for keeping her here? It'll actually break my heart if we stop talking, I love her too much and i'm scared.
What do I do?
What do I do?
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Thanks,
Yes we spend alot of time together, and we do talk. Sometimes I think we are too honest with each other, but if i tell her what is bothering me, and she does the same, how to we resolve it? Thats the tricky part..
I'm hoping so, hoping that everything will sort itself out, if we both have time to sort ourselves out and stuff.
So the time apart will be good and then see what happens?
We tried today, and it didnt work. She woke up and drank all day, was almost hit by a car and was ready to kill herself, my other friend told me everything, she told me because she was throwing up when she thought about me. I actually cried on the phone when I found out. So I text her, I couldn't do anything else. I'm not sure what'll happen now, but apparently time apart is NOT a good idea for us I hate not knowing what to do.