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Hiya my names jaiden and i'm 21 my boyfriend is also 21 and we have been seeing eachother for 4 years now.
Problem is we both live with our parents and never get time on our own for sex etc and its really getting us both down and frustrated, we are always fighting now and i dont want our relationship to end over sex.
We still get to once every week or every two weeks it doesn't bother me as much as it does him and dont like to see him unhappy.
We would move out but we are still students and not earning enough from part time jobs to own our own house/flat.
Advice needed please
Hiya my names jaiden and i'm 21 my boyfriend is also 21 and we have been seeing eachother for 4 years now.
Problem is we both live with our parents and never get time on our own for sex etc and its really getting us both down and frustrated, we are always fighting now and i dont want our relationship to end over sex.
We still get to once every week or every two weeks it doesn't bother me as much as it does him and dont like to see him unhappy.
We would move out but we are still students and not earning enough from part time jobs to own our own house/flat.
Advice needed please
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Sounds like at least one of you needs to get out! At 21 I think it's a good idea to have your own space. You don't need to own a flat either! And if you're not ready for it, you don't even necessarily have to move in together. Why not find a flatshare with other students? Can be a great way of meeting new people too.
But you're a student so you will be entitled to some kind of loan etc.
All I can say is that if he REALLY loves you, he'll be patient until the opportunities arise. It's a bit unfair that he is setting expectations on you when, in fact, its his own libido that is causing the problems. If he wants quiet time with you, let HIM arrange it. But don't let his sexual frustration cause you stress. Like every other boy, a good old fashioned hand-crank can do wonders.
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Thank you teagan, this is wat i think all the time but men are just hopeless sometimes
- as you're students surely there are times when you've got late lecturers and the parents are out of the house???