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yes, im still a mess.
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Okay, so i broke up with my bf last week.
Afetr 2 weeks, i found things werent working. As harsh as it sounds he was holding me back, and we just didnt have anything in common anymore. We had tried twice before to rev up teh realtionship and it failed.
Anyway, im worried about him. Everyone, including him, is telling me how he is struggling to cope. It makes me feel sick with guilt. I dont want to try and help too much in case he gets mixed signals., shoudl i just leave it?
Also, even though deep down i know i made teh right decision, i still miss hiM. I miss his hugs and his kisses. and that he made me feel safe. Thsi si normal right? not regret?
Poeple keep telling me how amazing he is, but if hes not for me tahst it right?
I feel like ive lost a load of friends through this, as though there all gatheringa round him.
Oh, i feel awful about everything.
?
Afetr 2 weeks, i found things werent working. As harsh as it sounds he was holding me back, and we just didnt have anything in common anymore. We had tried twice before to rev up teh realtionship and it failed.
Anyway, im worried about him. Everyone, including him, is telling me how he is struggling to cope. It makes me feel sick with guilt. I dont want to try and help too much in case he gets mixed signals., shoudl i just leave it?
Also, even though deep down i know i made teh right decision, i still miss hiM. I miss his hugs and his kisses. and that he made me feel safe. Thsi si normal right? not regret?
Poeple keep telling me how amazing he is, but if hes not for me tahst it right?
I feel like ive lost a load of friends through this, as though there all gatheringa round him.
Oh, i feel awful about everything.
?
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Hopefully you and him can both get over it in time and move on