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do you think the age gap is fine

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
right well i am 17 and my girlsfriend is 15 i am just wondering is the age gap too much or not......

also 1 thing we hav both said is we are not going 2 have sex untill she is atleast 16!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems fine to me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sounds fine, im 2 years older than my partner :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds fine, I was in same position with my ex.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Ri* wrote: »
    sounds fine, im 2 years older than my partner :)

    I think it is more the fact that the girl is under 16, at the moment.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel wrote: »
    I think it is more the fact that the girl is under 16, at the moment.

    I still don't see it as a problem though. And he has responsibly stated that he will wait for her to turn 16 before he gets jiggy with her ... so it sounds fine to me. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    I still don't see it as a problem though. And he has responsibly stated that he will wait for her to turn 16 before he gets jiggy with her ... so it sounds fine to me. :)

    Lol - I didn't say I had an issue with it, but that was the reason the chap was asking :) *Ri* was simply commenting on a two year age gap, when she and her partner are 22 and 20.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel wrote: »
    Lol - I didn't say I had an issue with it, but that was the reason the chap was asking :) *Ri* was simply commenting on a two year age gap, when she and her partner are 22 and 20.


    sorry chaps, misunderstood, thought his issue was with the actual gap, not the fact that she was underage...
    fair enough lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems fine with me, you're even waiting until she's 16 before having sex.

    I've been sorta seeing a woman 19 years older than me recently. :chin: :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nah, this is complete fine by me. Over here the age-gap-laws and stuff are not as strict, so I'm used to different stuff.

    my sis, when she was fifteen was together with her b/f for a year who was nearly 20. Yeah, it might be bloody murder in the US, but it was quite aight.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's fine. I was with my fella when I was 15 and he's was older than you are at the time.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Half your age, then add seven.

    That's the rule.

    Otherwise they bang you up with the paedos and the nonces.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    crazy train 2009 wrote: »
    right well i am 17 and my girlsfriend is 15 i am just wondering is the age gap too much or not......

    also 1 thing we hav both said is we are not going 2 have sex untill she is atleast 16!

    its fine.. honestly :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i just wasnt too sure because a few people have said the age gap os fine and then others hav been saying that its rong and stuff like that so i jus needed other peoples opinions on this. because its not like i am only with her for one thing
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thunderstruck wrote: »
    Half your age, then add seven.

    That's the rule.

    Well i'm close enough there.
    I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 22....so walking the line of acceptable. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when i was 17 i started seeing a guy who was 33. were now engaged with 1 year old son, ur age gaps a lot more normal than mines was:D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Edinburghguy wrote: »
    Well i'm close enough there.
    I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 22....so walking the line of acceptable. :)

    That formula is a load of b¤%&cks anyway. Anyone over 18 can date anyone else over 18, so I wouldn't worry about it.

    As for a two year age-gap, it's nothing, not even as a teenager.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nope a two year gap = good :)

    especially if the guy is older (well thats my opinion anyway)

    and thumbs up for waiting until she's at least 16 :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Age gaps don't really matter as long as both persons are over the age of 18. - However you both seem responsible enough to look after one another and it is only a gap of two years so it's fine :).

    And respect for yous to waiting til she's the legal age of sexual intercourse mate :) :yippe:.

    xxx
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