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Anxiety leading to softness
My girlfriend and I are going to have sex next week for the first time. We were going to have sex the other week, she had her legs open and I went soft just before penetrating. I have anxiety issues, in the past with other girls if I am soft I am embarassed at the size and usually have to get myself hard before they can touch it. All the advice I have read is just telling you to "relax" but I cant shut it out of my mind, I am constantly worrying I wont be able to get it up next week, not sure whether to try hypnotherapy. Any ideas?