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Would you leave your boyfriend if....

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
...he wanted you to fist his butt hole?

Not trying to be funny -- im seriouse.
Let me know yes or no.
Thanks.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not necessarily but i wouldnt do it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldnt leave him but i wouldnt touch his bum either haha
    your boyfriends damaging
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't necessarily leave him -- I would deffinately let him know that, I wouldn't entertain the idea of thinking about it, let alone doing it to him. :no:
  • littlemissylittlemissy knit chick Posts: 9,972
    I would not leave him for that reason, no.

    Doesn't say I would take or give the fisting, though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't have a boyfriend.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Conway13 wrote: »
    ...he wanted you to fist his butt hole?

    As long as he didn't want me to clap my hands while they were up there ...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No id want to know why +OUCH :yes: (not that i know how that feels in that part of anatomy he he)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you are not into fisting his bum, you might talk this out without leaving him. What if he's a veggie and you cook him mince balls. Shall he tell you, that he doesn't want to eat meat, because it's against his morals or do you WANT HIM TO DUMP YOUR SILLY BUM FOR YOUR INSOLENCE!

    If he's a idiot anyhow and that was just the straw that broke the camel's back, do it. But if he's just a regular ok boyfriend this would be silly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im a guy it sounds like he's sexually confused maybe? no straight guys i know wud want summit up their ass.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm positive he is strait.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im a guy it sounds like he's sexually confused maybe? no straight guys i know wud want summit up their ass.

    I'm sure plenty of straight guys do! Thats where the guys g-spot (prostate gland) is, so having something up there may well feel pretty darn good :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you for your input Jarvey Of Suburbia.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A lot of my boyfriends have been obsessed with having their bum played with. As long as I've used precautions (dental dams etc) I've been quite willing.

    So no, but you shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to. Wouldn't break up though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Conway13 wrote: »
    ...he wanted you to fist his butt hole?

    Not trying to be funny -- im seriouse.
    Let me know yes or no.
    Thanks.

    What I would add is that unless he (you?) has never been fisted before, its not something you can dive straight into, so to speak. You'd need to be pretty comfortable with one and then more fingers before you tried fisting, and even then, there is a technique to it, if you want to avoid any excessive pain or damage. Rather you than me though! ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A lot of my boyfriends have been obsessed with having their bum played with. As long as I've used precautions (dental dams etc) I've been quite willing.

    So no, but you shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to. Wouldn't break up though.

    Thank you - that helps.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    What I would add is that unless he (you?) has never been fisted before, its not something you can dive straight into, so to speak. You'd need to be pretty comfortable with one and then more fingers before you tried fisting, and even then, there is a technique to it, if you want to avoid any excessive pain or damage. Rather you than me though! ;)

    what kind of pain or damage could occur?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think I'd laugh then give it a go.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I think I'd laugh then give it a go.

    Nice.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    true though
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well we've been experimenting. I think I might do it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Conway13 wrote: »
    what kind of pain or damage could occur?

    Have you tried being just fingered yet, with one or more fingers?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes all 5 actually fit -- with alot of lube and a rubber glove.

    We tried it last night. Before we tried 2 then he wanted more.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh well, that sounds like you're half-way there.

    Some general information here :

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisting

    And a 'how' to here :

    http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaysexadvice/ht/gayfisting.htm :wave:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey well thanks!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Conway13 wrote: »
    Hey well thanks!

    Glad we could help :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    Oh well, that sounds like you're half-way there.

    Some general information here :

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisting

    And a 'how' to here :

    http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaysexadvice/ht/gayfisting.htm :wave:

    I am so not clicking any of those links :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    I am so not clicking any of those links :D

    They go to a Rick Astley video. Seriously. ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Conway13 wrote: »
    ...he wanted you to fist his butt hole?

    Not trying to be funny -- im seriouse.
    Let me know yes or no.
    Thanks.

    you what! i find it hard just to put my pile prep in never mind a fist
    he must be some arsehole sorry have some arsehole :eek2: he he
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol at first you wanted to leave your b/f for the cheek of having such an abominable request and now where everyone said "wouldn't leave him, but only do if I wanted to" you are buttfisting him. Sometimes I'm afraid thesite has too much influence on people.
  • littlemissylittlemissy knit chick Posts: 9,972
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    lol at first you wanted to leave your b/f for the cheek of having such an abominable request and now where everyone said "wouldn't leave him, but only do if I wanted to" you are buttfisting him. Sometimes I'm afraid thesite has too much influence on people.

    Baaaaaa!

    /sheep impersonation
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