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Girls, would you do this for your man?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey

A few weeks ago me and my boyfriend were in bed and he told me that when he was just about to cum he wanted to pull out, spunk on my face then for me to suck him off for a bit which i have no problem with. we were at it doggy style and he thrust at a dodgy angle and his cock slipped out of me and accidently went up my arse for a second or two, it was a genuine accident and it hurt a little bit but i'm not bothered about this as it was a mistake. I told my boyfriend there was NO way i was going to suck his cock after it had been up my arse and he got proper funny with me! he said that i was frigid and hes known loads of birds in the past that would do it if he wanted them to. At this point he lost his errection and got in a strop with me for "ruining his orgasam" because he didnt cum...

am i being uptight or is it quite normal for a girl to suck a cock that has been up her own arse?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like he has been watching too much porn. :thumb:

    Still what would i know. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he treated me the way your boyfriend does then no I wouldn't do it. Personaly I couldn't do it after it's been up anyone's anus.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know, the thought of it just makes me sick, it would taste gross :yuck:

    what pissed me off tough is that he said he could phone up now a number of women who would happily do that for him and called me boring in bed. I guess these women just do it to please whoever they are fucking.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no, I think you deserve respect and shouldn't be forced into anything you don't want. there is a border between willing to please your guy and going beyond your limits to simply satisfy his most (gross) desires. would he suck anything that's been up his? :blush:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ±Lover± wrote: »
    what pissed me off tough is that he said he could phone up now a number of women who would happily do that for him and called me boring in bed. I guess these women just do it to please whoever they are fucking.


    Dump him.

    No pun intended :o
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dump him.

    No pun intended :o
    I agree!
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    You are not being uptight but that is not really the point. You should only ever EVER do what you are comfortable with doing. And if you are not comfortable doing what he asks you he should never EVER make you feel bad about that. Sex should never be a chore and never be something that you don't want to do.

    And yes, even more so because he sounds like he doesn't treat you right anyway, but my point would still be valid if he treated you well normally or not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ±Lover± wrote: »
    he thrust at a dodgy angle and his cock slipped out of me and accidently went up my arse for a second or two, it was a genuine accident and it hurt a little bit but i'm not bothered about this as it was a mistake.

    Wow! Did it go all the way up? And it only hurt a bit? I suppose one could say I am a 'rear entry' professional but THAT would have made my eyes water, going in so suddenly. Way to go, girl! :)

    Regarding your dilemma, perhaps he should have been wearing a condom and then he could whip it off so you could suck it then? But I am sure you don't want a lecture on Safe Sex. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can see where he is coming from, but I moving from one hole to another and then sucking on it? Only in the movies please!

    He got in strop because he didn't get to finish thats why :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    CoolMe wrote: »
    I can see where he is coming from

    Was that pun intended? Dirty boy! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    Wow! Did it go all the way up? And it only hurt a bit? I suppose one could say I am a 'rear entry' professional but THAT would have made my eyes water, going in so suddenly. Way to go, girl! :)

    Regarding your dilemma, perhaps he should have been wearing a condom and then he could whip it off so you could suck it then? But I am sure you don't want a lecture on Safe Sex. :)

    no it didnt go all the way in, just the head really. we don't use condoms as we have both been tested yadda yadda etc.

    he said i should of just sucked it to make him happy but i said no way, even if you offered me a million quid i wouldnt put something in my gob that has been up my arse.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ±Lover± wrote: »
    i said no way, even if you offered me a million quid i wouldnt put something in my gob that has been up my arse.

    Teagans cheap, he'll do it for a fiver ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    CoolMe wrote: »
    Teagans cheap, he'll do it for a fiver ;)

    £4.89 with the new vat rates.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote: »
    £4.89 with the new vat rates.

    :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it's pretty unreasonable of him to get angry at you for not doing something you don't want to do. Did he make you come? Do you complain if you don't?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ±Lover± wrote: »
    he said that i was frigid and hes known loads of birds in the past that would do it if he wanted them to. At this point he lost his errection and got in a strop with me for "ruining his orgasam" because he didnt cum...

    am i being uptight or is it quite normal for a girl to suck a cock that has been up her own arse?

    Tell him to grow the fuck up and respect your boundaries.

    If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't. It's not a question of consideration for his orgasm when your own limits and comfort zones are being pushed out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well see how he likes it if your stuck your finger up his poo hole while giving him a bj, he will no doubt love it until you make him suck said finger.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont think you really need us to tell you hes being a cunt again
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    CoolMe wrote: »
    Teagans cheap, he'll do it for a fiver ;)

    Yeah, and you still owe me. None of this 'I'm a poor student' rap either. You wanna play? You pay!!!! :banghead:

    p.s. And it is a fiver. It happened before the VAT decrease!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ±Lover± wrote: »
    if you offered me a million quid i wouldnt put something in my gob that has been up my arse.

    Oh, for a million quid? I'd do it then. I'd just spend £5 quid on good mouthwash! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    one million quid? hell, I'd transplant my nose into my anus for a million quid.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    Yeah, and you still owe me. None of this 'I'm a poor student' rap either. You wanna play? You pay!!!! :banghead:

    p.s. And it is a fiver. It happened before the VAT decrease!

    You weren't saying that the other night.... :blush:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'd tell him to suck his dick himself...and then see if he gets e.coli poisoning
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I went with a girl once who wanted me to ATM her (ATM = arse-to-mouth, to give it it's porn industry term). I've got no problem doing her up the arse and in fact she'd sometimes cum off it so it was all cool but she asked me to tell her when I was about to hit the money shot which I did, she slid off and went down on me - it was well freaky. I mean I'll try anything if it pleases the woman but this just shocked me.

    I kinda avoided kissing her afterwards....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OMG He's So Unconsiderate !! Am Sure He Wouldnt Put sumthing In His Own Mouth After It Had Been Up His Arse!! Sounds Like A Right Self Pig!! A Make My Partner Go Wash His Self Every Single Time B4 It Goes Anywhere Near My Mouth Nd He Dusnt Have Any Problem Wif This.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    CoolMe wrote: »
    You weren't saying that the other night.... :blush:

    Nope. I distinctly said I wanted paying but I didn't want you breaking open your money box and paying me in 1p and 2p coins.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sure it was the other way around! You couldn't afford me anyway ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    depends

    it totally depends on the person, if you are not comfortable doing this,then DONT!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No I wouldn't my bloke wouldn't want me to either, however some people will happily do it, just because they do doesn't mean you have to or should.

    What one person loves another might not do, its about sexual compatibility, respecting each other and your boundries, sorry to be blunt but the guy sounds like a waste of space.

    When he goes on about the loads of women that he could call that would happily do it, tell him there are loads of men out there that would happily not mentally abuse you, throw you across the room, toy with your emotions or leave you when you are too ill to get out of bed and he should go find one of the women and you will go find one of the men.

    You know where this is going by now, just for gods sick ditch the twat and move on.
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