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Last Night! (Valintines Night)

Hey All,

Hi listen last night I went out to a club with my girlfriend.... so everything was ok and dam she looked soo fine!! trust me she was so hot and sexy!! well I seen a couple of guys lookin at her and I mean they where wanting her!! well I am so frustrated!!! and it annoys me that when she goes out by herself she might do something... has anyone got the same feeling! heres another thing last night she told me she loved me and that she always wants to be with me forever and I dont know what too say I do love her I am actually quite mad about her HELP...
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you have to trust her! i didn't trust my g/f and we always argued bucause of it. She is obviously mad about you too so dont worry bout it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My girlfriend goes out without me quite a lot and I know that guys always try it on with her, she tells me the day after about the tactics they use <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> .I just don't care because I trust her utterly, you will just have to take her word and not get possessive because that would ruin things

    If you really love her then tell her! In fact tell her all the time because it is a very special thing
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i was in a simular situation the other week, my gf wanted to go out to a bar with only a couple of her girl friends. I knew some of the staff there and knew what type of ppl were up there.
    I simply asked her not to go by herself so i went up with her. This was not because i didnt trust her but the ppl up there. She was quite ok about the fact i was worrying about her that much. We sorted everything out and i now have no worries when she goes up there as i know that her friends wouldn't let anything happen to her.
    You just have to trust her and the ppl shes with. A relationship has to be based on trust, if there is none then it is living dangerously.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I had the same problem with my boyfriend when i started uni. Its not that he didn't trust me, he didn't trust other people. No matter how many times i told him i loved him he still worried like hell.
    So i took him out with me one nite especially to show him how i behave when i'm out. I showed him the places i go and the peolpe i meet and most of all how i beel with any unwelcome attention from guys.
    Now he is relaxed about it all..... however we had a shaky patch due to the lack of trust so my advice is trust her or u'll lose her coz it's not nice to feel like ur other half doesn't trust u.
    Love=trust or atleast it should
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey,

    Hey people I am so greatful for the brilliant advice and points for my problem you have given me!! Its helped me loads! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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