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Is it ok to be seeing more than 1 person?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
If your not in a relationship, just "seeing" someone, is it ok to see more than that one person, and do things with others??

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats up to the people youre seeing :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    brad18 wrote: »
    If your not in a relationship, just "seeing" someone, is it ok to see more than that one person, and do things with others??

    Have you actually asked the person you are 'just seeing'? If they feel the same as you about the status of your 'non-relationship', why not? However, if you plan not to tell the first person, its wrong.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if the other person thinks its more monogamous than that then its pretty low on your part.

    If all parties are ok with it then its fine.
    Deceit is bad
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends what your definition of 'seeing' is.

    I don't think it's wrong to go on those first 'getting to know each other with just us' type 'dates' with more than one person.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As long as people know where they stand then it's fine.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    As long as people know where they stand then it's fine.

    :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's right, bow down in reverence to my wisdom, ha ha.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Agree with everything that's been said, and also, if you ended up in a long term relationship with one of them, would it have been a problem that you were doing stuff with others in early days if they find out?
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