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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi..i know that i haven't posted for such a long time but my friend is in this deep shit....
she had sex with this guy since 2 wks and now she has bleeding spots everyday... she is scared stiff...she has this thought in her mind that she is either pregnant or has a STD....help

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ermmmm check the info pages on that stuff?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    get your mate down to a GUM clinic right away - we cant really make a diagnosis here
    (and on the way back, buy some rubbers)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol
    i likey the wee piclol
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Best Advice is to get her to go to a doc or a clinic. I don't think bleeding spots are a sign of pregnancy but its always worth get it checked out. It could be a STD.

    Best policy is to use condoms.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi everybody......thanks for the tips but the whole problem is that she is not the legal age...and in our society it is forbidden for a girl to have sex before marriage.....so going to the GP and tests and all that is totally out of the question....too complicated....parents will get involved and all that shit....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im Sorry to be the bringer of bad news... but it looks like "your friend" needs to realise the shit has hit the fan and unfortunately more shit is on its way...

    She has gotta see a doctor... the longer the leave it there is a possibility that the problem may become worse.

    Being Healthly is your first and ULTIMATE priority and the consequences must be faced!

    LESSONS are to be learnt!
    Use condoms!

    I also fear that it is cultures like your own (forgive me i dont know the full picture!) that are contributing to the problem of HIV and Aids (and other STD's) and the fear of people reporting an illness because of the consequences it may hold!

    I say that health of yourself and others is PARAMOUNT and the consequences should have been thought before and not after it is too late!!!

    SHE NEEDS TO SEE A DOCTOR!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by malak:
    <STRONG>going to the GP and tests and all that is totally out of the question....too complicated....parents will get involved and all that shit....</STRONG>

    Its totally confidentail, at the GP and even more so at GUM Clinic. Parents will never find out. The health of both of them is the top priority

    [ 15-02-2002: Message edited by: acer ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi..i don't live in the UK or USA...it won't be confidential, it has to go through strict measures and paperwork and all that...and that is for a lousy blood test for pregnancy....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well no matter what happens she will need to see a GP otherwise she could become very ill. All the advice we can give is to get it seen to asap otherwise she can expect an untidy future. Sorry.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that you should take your mate to the Docters they have to be 100 percent confidentual(cant spell sorry) he or she wont say anyting you know?
    Its the law!
    Good Luck
    xxxxx
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