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A little help?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
How come I get very little attention in nightclubs?
Why can't I pull?
People tell me I'm good looking, but i don't dress like a slag or anything.
So what makes a girl pullable?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LIBERTY:
    <STRONG>How come I get very little attention in nightclubs?
    Why can't I pull?
    People tell me I'm good looking, but i don't dress like a slag or anything.
    So what makes a girl pullable?</STRONG>
    Generally two things:

    1) You are a slag, and all the guys who are gagging for it will swarm around you
    2) You are not a slag, but people may well assume you are taken, so you might need to make the first move.

    You say you're not a slut, so showing a guy some attention - a smile here, a wink there - will usually produce the goods. And remember, the sign of a good night is not necessarily whether you pulled or not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have the same prob my mates all say i'm one of the prettiest girls in our year but i still aint got a boyfreind and i wanna know why. Its so frustratin' <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The blokes or your friends are just being nice to you? you thought of that?

    Cae9
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cae9:
    <STRONG>The blokes or your friends are just being nice to you? you thought of that?</STRONG>
    "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."
    Originally posted by ~*pinkgirly*~:
    <STRONG>i have the same prob my mates all say i'm one of the prettiest girls in our year but i still aint got a boyfreind and i wanna know why. Its so frustratin'
    </STRONG>
    How about asking someone out, instead of waiting for the guy to make the first move?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aw honeys - know how you feel. The only advice I can give is just to be yourselves. Go out, dress the way you'd normally dress, act exactly the way you'd normally act if you were comfortable with your surroundings - basically, enjoy yourself. The more natural you are, the sexier you'll appear.

    I remember being single for ages, and it was only when I got so fed up of TRYING to pull (slapping on the make up, tarting myself up, giggling whenever it wasn't necessary) that I managed to grab myself a wonderful bloke. We first kissed when I'd pulled myself out of bed to do some laundry at uni, was wearing no make-up, was sweating my way up a small mountain, and had just stuck my jacket over my distinctly teddybear-like pyjama bottoms. I'm not suggesting you attempt this rather unique brand of sex appeal (!?) but I guess you could say I was exposing a very natural side to myself....if a little crazy......anyway, we're now celebrating our 3rd valentine's day together...! Hoorah for PJs.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey,

    I was in ur shoes once ok but mine was weird Ok listen...

    Ok when I went out I could not get anyone at all but in school I pulled all the women And when I went out one night I realised that when girls are out they dont want to go with anyone because they are not stressed!! they are just out to have fun.... and not to go with everyone but I think like it has been said a few winks and smiles helps now and then!!! TRUST ME! ITS AS EASY AS THIS <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why do girls always complaine when they havent got a bf? eapecially the really pretty ones? Why is it that a guy has to make the first move?
    Women should have the confidence to ask who they like out. But they still insist in waiting till the guy askes them.
    Is it that a girl cant take rejection?
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