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Missionary/ Doggy Style

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Two things:

1) What do I do during missionary!? I feel awkward just lying there, I usually grind my hips a bit, sometimes put my hands up to grab a headboard, touch his back/butt, and do a bit of moaning.. but other than that I worry about being a 'dead fish'. any tips?

2) I like doggy style, but does anyone else experience a really flushed face from it? I always turn very red, so I'm self conscious about engaging in it.

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yer just do what you're doing, grind your hips etc. If there's any particular speed or depth you like best try and encourage it with your butt grabs. Go with what feels right. Ask what he likes eg scratching his back squeezing butt kissing neck or whatever.

    I really wouldnt worry about getting flushed during doggy, sex is all about getting sweaty and red in the face. Be confident and he probably wont even notice. Really, not the most embarassing thing that could happen during sex!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just get into it and do whatever feels nice
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Grab your chest play with yourself. You know whatever get's you going. Throw stuff around, break windows, and cuss like a sailor. Blast some music at the same time.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Watch some quality porn, watch what the pro's do and take it from there!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    like the ol' saying goes ... lay back and think of england :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Watch some quality porn, watch what the pro's do and take it from there!

    I find that porn being the "put on for show" sex that it is, isnt very useful for learning much from, though admittedly you can learn a fair bit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Watch some quality porn, watch what the pro's do and take it from there!

    If my girlfriend started acting like a porn star I'd burst out laughing and the mood would be destroyed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what, would you laugh even if she deep throated you? :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try not to think too much and just do what feels natural....when I'm having sex my mind is far from "where should I put my hands?"
    Also try putting a pillow under your arse to tilt your hips up :)

    As to the red-faced thing I'm with lil lal on this...really not the most embarrassing thing to happen by a long stretch and I'm sure he doesn't even notice.

    Hols x
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