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fisrt? or wait?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
do you think that you should have sex on your first date with someone or would you wait?


i think that it depends on the person and whether you think you had a chance or not with that person.

what do think?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I did a similar post to this titles SLAGS - take a look <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well my thoughts are:
    if u think u have a chance with the person and feel comfortable enuff to do it then go for it but if u dont then dont cos he'll think ur easy and may not want anything to do with you afterwards therefore leaving u feeling dirty and used
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <already replied to sommit similar in depth so...>
    every hole's a goal
    </jk comment>

    Playing with fire will ultimately see you burnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
  • the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    i don't think i'd have sex during the first year of a relationship.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wont be having any sexual, adventures, until im sure ive found the right girl who im going to spend the rest of my life with.
    in other words NO SEX!

    Time if advancing slowly, feels like crap.

    Love advancing slowly, feels like a eternity diviness.

    Time advancing fast, feels great.

    Love advancing fast feels like an eternity of nothingless.

    Either way ur screwed.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i would say it depends on the people involved, how much experience they already had, their attitudes at the time, and the circumstances. not too much then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    i wouldnt like to lose my virginity to someone on a first or second date, someone id only just got to know/met. i was lucky in that i lost my virginity to someone i was in love with, and that happened after 10 months (although we wanted to do it after 6). but now i wouldnt say i always had to have known the person a long time or be in love with them to have sex. strange how attitudes change, in just a year! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by the_Paranoid_bunny:
    i don't think i'd have sex during the first year of a relationship.

    Hey cool, someone who thinks like me! Whenever I say that most people look at me like I'm several sandwiches short of a picnic <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm pretty broad minded and personally don't think that sex on a first date is such a big deal...

    I think if you really click with someone and get on so well that it wouldn't hurt sleeping with them on the same day...
  • the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    Hey cool, someone who thinks like me! Whenever I say that most people look at me like I'm several sandwiches short of a picnic <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    yeah, i was afraid of getting that too... i've been with my gf for 15 months now, and we haven't had sex yet. it's a good relationship we've been building up and i'm loving it... we'll probably start having sex sometimes soon, and i think this is a good time cos we know we're ready, and we know we're in love.

    sex on a first date is <insert bad word here, i think i've used up my swear-word quota for today already> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bit old i know but forgive me ive been on holiday!!!!!!

    Umm but my thoughts are, i have nothing against one nighters unless their done every night etc........ but i met a fella last night and usually ive already forgotten them but for some reason i quite like him (something to do with his sports car) lol sorry but if i met someone i liked alot i wouldn't sleep with them on the first night but maybe on the first date if they're separate events... does that make sense??? but anyway ive gotta decidee whether i should try to to get his number..... (how i dread rejection though)

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