gf doesnt misss me:(

Former Member

hi guys, just needed some advice on a problem thts really bothering me,

ive been with my gf for 9 months and everythings great, the weird thing is when were apart, she doesnt miss me, its not like i want her to be upset but it makes me feel really unwantes, this summer she went away for 4 weeks and didnt miss me at all, is this something to worry about?, she says it doesnt mean anything its just how she is, but its really knocking my self confidence. Any advice would be massively appreciated:).

j

Former Member

perhaps she aint into you as much as you are with her

Former Member

When i'm away from my girlfriend (which is for up to 6 weeks at a time) i don't really miss her because i know i love her to teeny bits and she feels the same about me - I have no doubts about that at all

Maybe she is totally secure knowing she is with you, maybe she is how she is and she just does not do pining

Its not something that should be worrying you or letting it affect you in a major way because its not a massive issue, its actually very good that she can be so honest with you :yes:

Former Member

i think i would feel a bit unwanted if this happened to me but i always panic in relationships over nothing lol so thats neither here nor there. i dont think its a big deal by itself. if she was showing other signs that maybe she wasnt that into you then i dunno maybe you would have cause for concern but if everythig else seems fine dont worry about it. some people just dont miss people that much wich i think can be a pretty good characteristic and i wish i had it lol. alot of people dont get that INTO relationships for whatever reason if you get what i mean. you get some girls who really love there boyfriends straight away while others are bit more laid back about things and dont worry greatly about relationships.

Former Member

Maybe your gf needs some space. We all get a bit stifled, need to think more freely, give our guys a break. I hope she will get back to you. Give her time.

Poppi