sex and uni

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this might sound like a really dumb idea but its started to do my head in so i had to ask people. anyway, i'm 18 and a virgin and going to uni (hopefully) in September. was talking to one of my mates the other day about relationships, sex and meeting the right guy and he said something about how if i meet someone at university who i decided to sleep with me being a virgin might put them off. logically i know how stupid this is cos surely any decent guy would be extremely flattered that their girlf wanted to lose her virginity to them but i just kinda need others to verify that? or agree with him, what d'ya think?

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Hiya Little Angel (to those who know me - im back - you miss me??) - Just thought id say - im also 18 (next week! YIPEE!) and im a virgin. Im going to uni next year also, but the way i see it, i havent met a guy that i would like to sleep with yet. That doesnt make me frigid, or anything like that it shows that i have some morals and respect for my own body, and i think any decent guy (if there are any out there) would respect that. If you explain that its simply cos you havent met the rite person before then he should be quite flattered. The way i see it, if he doesnt like it - he aint worth it anyway!! Hope that helps!! Male opinions mite be useful tho? WHAT DO THE GUYS THINK ON THIS ONE?? Lxx

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welcome littleangel.
well, i think its gr8 ur waitin 4 the right person, wish i had.
and any respectable, decent, caring bloke wouldnt b bothered by the fact ur a virgin.
lots of shaggin goes on at uni, dont feel pressurised 2 do n e thing u dont wanna, u'll regret it in the short and long run.

welcome again, feel free 2 post when and where eva, ur views and experiences will b appreciated.
H.

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hiya

thanks for your help and welcomes <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; just needed people to back me up, would be good to get a male opinion too!

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hei <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
I'm male 18 hoping to go to uni and I'm still a virgin and I really doubt that I'm the only guy who's still a virgin in fact there was an artcile in the news section about students and sex here's the url http://ned.thesite.org.uk/sex/news/sex_diary_march_2001.html
hope I helped <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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hello little angel.

i think it really shouldn't matter one way or the other, no? if you meet someone and you love them and they love you, all that matters is what you do when you're together.

so if any person makes a big deal of whether you're a virgin or not, i think is obsessing over something that in the grand scheme of things real isn't so important.

its only a big deal if you or your partner make it one. :-)

good luck in uni.