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I really dislike my parents
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everyone else has it easy.
You're just searching for a reaction, aren't you?
For now it isn't really enough of a reason to close this thread but I certainly don't see any value in keeping a thread open just to make you feel worse about yourself. However, closing a thread where someone is looking for help would only be done with a heavy heart so please think about what you're posting. At the very least I think people would benefit from you expanding on any idea that you were simply about to repeat.
So, open for now, but not necessarily for long - as there's plenty of advice available earlier in the thread and I can't see you focusing on the most negative part of it being something that will be beneficial.
And, to make it clear, if you genuinely can't see that it's mistaken to believe you are the worst off human being in the world then it would be a good idea to phone one of the services like Saneline. It's not a perspective on life that anyone else can change, it's you that needs to take the steps to discover why life is more complicated for everyone than you currently perceive. That's something that small steps like phoning a service can help.
how? it seems everyone one else has things easy and i want it too.
being a normal person. everyone else is so I want to be too.
You could have googled that, just like you can google self fulfilling prophecy in case you ask
Personally, I think the only thing stopping you is yourself.
*awaits more excuses*
why is that a bad thing?
Because if you're the victim all the time, the world is against you and nothing is ever your fault... you're never going to go anywhere. Hence a bad thing.
I'm beginning to thing you're a bit of an idiot.
ok.
why?
Yes they do. Everyone here does for example.
I think it is self evident. See below.
Go into the self harm thread in health. Read that. Come back and tell me about everybody on here having it easy you ignorant fool. :mad:
Define 'normal'. I can guarantee that many people on here don't fall under that.
You won't get anywhere without helping yourself. Excuses, which you seem to make a lot, aren't helping yourself.
:yes:
everyone here goes out a lot and only has to care about rows with their partners.
You really are a tool.
Did you even read this: http://vbulletin.thesite.org/showthread.php?t=33791
youre wrong.
You've hit your twenties, you're working, so what's stopping you from moving out if it's so bad where you live? All you do is sit there and blame the rest of the world when everything goes wrong.
By no means am I suggesting your parents or indeed anyone elses are free of blame, because after all they're human just like you and me. We argue with our parents, that's what happens. I ague with mine too, sometimes it gets very heated. Just the same as we argue with our partners and whatnot.
Whether or not the problem is your inability to communicate effectively with your folks for whatever reason, you've hardly endeared yourself here, and you've just made yourself sound like a spoilt brat.
do they?
I wish that was all I had to care about. I agree with g_angel, read the Depression and Self-Harming thread. Maybe it will knock some damned sense into you.
Incidentally, I don't go out a lot. I go out once in a blue moon. Not through choice, either.
i know a person has to help themselves. that's what im doing.
yes. because they are normal and i want to be normal too.