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I really dislike my parents
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I don't really care how bad that sounds.
I have to do work that's beneath me and for talentless people, in my 20's and never had a boyfriend, have few friends, have to see some dopey psychiatrist who knows jack about the society he lives in, all because of them. I know this sounds might whiny and even infantile or babyish but they never care for my needs emotionally. If I tell them something bothers me, they always tell me to "that's the way it is" and then complain that I never confide in them. They complain that I'm a handful and send me to some dipshit doctor and it is them who is making me a handful. How would they handle never being allowed to vent, or having their problems dismissed all the while?
And you know what? It all boils down to SMALL O.75" TINY MINISCULE PUNY PATHETIC MICROSCOPIC PENIS JEALOUSY. They simply lack the balls to hack through life and expect others to compensate for them and think that I should somehow sacrifice for them because of this. Well, fuck them. If they can't fulfil their role as parents and not care for her needs in life, then I see little reason to accomodate them.
I have to do work that's beneath me and for talentless people, in my 20's and never had a boyfriend, have few friends, have to see some dopey psychiatrist who knows jack about the society he lives in, all because of them. I know this sounds might whiny and even infantile or babyish but they never care for my needs emotionally. If I tell them something bothers me, they always tell me to "that's the way it is" and then complain that I never confide in them. They complain that I'm a handful and send me to some dipshit doctor and it is them who is making me a handful. How would they handle never being allowed to vent, or having their problems dismissed all the while?
And you know what? It all boils down to SMALL O.75" TINY MINISCULE PUNY PATHETIC MICROSCOPIC PENIS JEALOUSY. They simply lack the balls to hack through life and expect others to compensate for them and think that I should somehow sacrifice for them because of this. Well, fuck them. If they can't fulfil their role as parents and not care for her needs in life, then I see little reason to accomodate them.
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i love how supportive this board is to people with problems. its so heartwarming
Why?
mid 20's
Has a higher opinion of herself than aparently her employers do
Not many friends
visits pyschiatrist at the request of her parents
Now correct me if im wrong here but not many parents would send their kids to a professional for help if they didn't care about them.
Not many friends/boyfriend? ....why not?
To the op: out of interest, what do you work as?
and if you dislike your job that badly why not try and get another?
The original post to me reads as though there are a number of problems/issues around and her parents are trying best they can to help but its getting thrown back in their faces!
And I have no friends because of my personality.
Sounds like you're putting yourself down a bit here..whats wrong with your personality? (in your opinion)
Also, I work on trying to make friends before etting a boyfriend.
Tinkler, I agree that it's technically possible (although a recent study said that realistically, single people need about £13k to live on), but it's a pretty shit way to live. There's also the initial costs of moving anywhere. If you want to live in another town, there's moving costs, security deposits, the first month's rent, and a whole host of other things to pay for. And like I said, it's difficult to try and get experience doing anything else if your entire life is dedicated to paying the rent and bills.
Thanks a lot for your advice. I appreciate it a lot.
why do you ask?