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Looks more attractive, same as the way a lot of men go for big boobs. It's not odd by a long stretch.
I am and the same for shaving my legs.
But I often do wonder where the idea of removing body hair comes from.
A point to remember is that men by nature are a lot hairier than women. So, if an alien studying evolutionary biology came down and observed that difference, it would reasonable for him to predict that men would generally be more attracted hairless bodies, and women more attracted to hairy bodies. So to emphasise that difference, women shave their bodies.
Personally, I don't like completely shaved pussies though because they look unnatural. Trimmed or partly shaved is what I generally prefer.
And Skive makes a good point re men having to shave too, which renders any idea of a double standard to be bullshit.
Aesthetics aren't necessarily a product of social construct or evolved instinct.
i agree that no one should feel they have to do anything for anyone and society is unfair on women as IT IS more acceptabl;e for a man to not shave than for a women. but EVERYONE modifeis themselves to please other people. you wash in the morning to smell nice yes i know you also wash as poor hygiene can cause diseases and the such but the main reason people do it is to please other people noses. you could happily go for over a week between washes before you were at risk of infection but you dont because of society and how everyone tries to please other people. we wear nice clothes. we could get away with wearing just about anything really if it was comfy and kept us dry and warm but we dont becasue we want to look nice everyone does. even if you say you dont care about cliothes as i do i wear ri[ppped jeans and old hoodies but at the end of the day there are loads of perfectly fine peices of clothing i wouldnt wear because i dont like how they look and mainly because i dont want to be seen wearing that item of clothing. women shave because they want to please the male sex just like how women wear make up. men do the same. they shave there faces andn wear deodrant and everything like tht everyone in the world does it, im not saying its a good thing far from it really but its here.
p.s i do agree with you its not fair on women lol
To appear more attractive to most girls men have to tidy their facil hair up by either trimming it or shaving i completely. I have to do this every day.
The reason why men and women dress differently, use different cosmetics, different smells, different hair cuts and different grooming methods is because men and women are different. It's not rocket science.
Although it varies from culture to culture much of what women do to modify there appearance makes them appear more feminine, and what men do more masculine.
It's not got anything to do with what 'fair'. It's the way it is.
Not if you don't want to trim your pubes because you think it's unfair, don't. But stop whinging about what other people find attractive and about how unfair it is. People like what they like.
Make a choice and be happy with it.
I completely agree with this but personally I wax because it feels better for me not so I look nicer to my boyfriend.
I don't feel the need to at all. I do it because it feels nicer for me, end of.
I just adore a hairy bush the more the better for me even up to the tummy button and down the inner thighs so if you are very hairy girls dont be disgusted and led by the sheep just remember about 5% of men adore all your natural wonderfle body hair !!!! there are even web sights dedecated to hairy girls they are called hirsute ha ! ha !!!
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just be natural !!!!!!!
jonny xxx
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From the health perspective, shaving or waxing is known to cause a lot of irritation and infections. Supposedly, according to a friend nurse of mine, the hair is there to protect your parts from infection. So if it's natural, why change? It used to bug me in previous relationships and my ex's would ask me to do this. However, I care quite a bit for my boyfriend now and considered it. He didn't have a preference, and didn't want me to change my appearance, even in this case for him. I appreciated it.