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Naturegoddess wrote: »
Arrange times for him to see the baby, ideally more than once a week, and again make sure you give it to him in a letter or e-mail and keep a copy. If he turns up at other times, and it sounds like he will, calmly tell him you're trying to get the baby into a routine.
blonde__batman wrote: »
we basically decided on this with him in july. my boyfriend, myself and him all agreed that once the baby comes we will sit down together and arrange a time each week which suits us all and he will see the baby then.
now i have recieved a letter from him telling me that he has gotten himself a solicitor and i should do the same and pretty much that he doesnt agree with what the 3 of us have previously decided on.
i dunno wat else to do anymore as i thought we had it all settled and then for no reason he changes his mind!
also not sure what he thinks he is going to achieve by having a solicitor or what he will achieve? as i have never said to him he cant see the baby, all i have said is that when it is newborn and obviously while i am still breastfeeding i will not be happy with him taking the baby from where i am...which i dont think it is unreasonable as he obviously cannot breastfeed it!
he is just really winding me up with all this. i have been nothing but reasonable from day one, but since i told him i was with someone new all he does is abuse me, harass me, talk down to me and basically tell me im mentally unstable!