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How to pull girls in 5 steps
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with nice sharp heels
Would this help or hinder my chances of pulling?
For all the people who've called me a prat, an idiot, taken the piss etc, I couldn't give a fuck. This is a foolproof method which has worked every time. Obviously reality is less "mechanical" and more smooth. Sure its basic simple advice, but that can be all it takes to go from "never been kissed" to a stud. But at the end of the day, I'm in my 20s and have pulled hundreds, slept with dozens of girls, had long-term girlfriends, have a degree from one of the world's best unis (Imperial), run my own business along with a good graduate job, and have excellent time management, making the most of it all - my life's certainly a lot more fulfilled than certain people here stuck in dead-end jobs wasting their lives away with 1,000+, in some cases 10,000+, posts on an internet message board.
You're not the only person here in a good job, earning lots, going out and popular with women, I think the problem people have is that you have this perception that you're better than a lot of people on here and that you have no problem in saying this, either in a thinly-veiled way or blantantly.
These certain people happen (in general) have given out averagely and consistently better advice and support than you have (no offence intended). Many of these many thousands of posts have been posts where people have been there for each other, over many miles of cable (internet) when nobody else was there for them, answered the questions that nobody will answer, and many of us who have posted these many numbers of messages, you will find, have been here a number of years, i do believe tomorrow with be my 4th anniversary here.
So to all the people of the site, whether you have posted 10 posts or 10,000. Whether you have asked 1 question or 100, everyones questions and answers, advice and support is valued in here, and while i do admit i have been a bit forwardly harsh on you in here, i will not tolerate you saying things like you have above, not in the sense that "Ive been here longer than you" but in a sense that there are people here who i trust and hold dear to myself, because of the friendship and bonds i hold with many of these people.
In the kingdom of hope there is no cold winter, and thesite.org is the kingdom of hope to many, and shall be to many more for hopefully many years to come.
*cough*
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so leave then if you're that good
Or they boast.
As for those who have posted many thousands of times, there are good reasons why they've stuck around for so long. I include myself in this. However, the way that you're going, you're unlikely to be around long enough to find out for yourself.
Many of those posts have helped people, this is an advise forum after all. I'm not sure you quite get the point of this place.
Since you've been here you mocked others genuine problems and bragged about how irresistible you are to women, to a bunch of poeple you consider to be wasting their lives away. That makes you look like a bit of prat mate.
Clearly im doing something wrong, i mean how easy can it be to condense something like that into one sentence so it even gets nominated or post of the week :razz:
At the point where she looks interested, you say something a long the lines of "hello", it's not an sex invitation if she likes you.
I think your av suits the current thread to a tee :P
Look. I have seen threads on this site where people say they are 22, 23, 24 and have never kissed a girl, however much they've tried they've never pulled a girl. If they read my advice and act on it they won't have that problem any more. Simple.
I don't think I'm "better than everyone else". Better than most people, yes. Different people have different criteria for what they think are good/bad qualities - surely few would honestly think everyone is equal. For me, I value communication - social / interpersonal skills, an entrepreneurial / creative mindset, intellect, dress sense, looks, and primarily the ambition to make the most of life and not let it waste away - experience as much as possible, both in a personal and academic/careerist sense. Given this, I think I'm better than most people, but not everyone. Fair?
And saying that some of the 23/24 year olds who have never had a kiss yet, do you really think (no offence to those 23/24 yr olds) that going to a club that they probly dont do that much, would work anyway, their confidence is probly shot up anyway.
You might want to brush up on those sterling observational skills
This link is for beautiful people only :flirt:
:rolleyes:
Well you might like to brushg up on you online communication skills.
Not really no. That's not confidence that's arrogance - a seriously unnatractive quality in most cases. Think what you like, doesn't mean it's right though.
You come across like one of the Aprentice candidates. Self belief is good within reason though, too much and you just look like a tit.