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nevermind the drunk talk
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In all honesty, i think you should dump him, because there will be a lot of decent blokes who wont make a move because youre with someone, so its a vicious circle. Dont wait for somethig better to come along, but anything sounds better than what youve got.
Im not saying hes an arsehole, but he isnt your mr right, so why are you wasting your time.
Surely being single has got to be better than having your self esteem eroded more and more every day
AS SSC said, your a great person and you deserve so so much more.
You are just afraid of the change, like I was. This feeling of nothingness, this void is just too good.
sorry nothing useful here... still drunk
If you're not happy you can't stay in that situation, you dont want to stay like this forever so you need to make a break at some point!
Start saving and making plans to move out? Prepare yourself so you're gonna have somewhere to live, and enough money to eat and all that stuff? And tell him and talk it over with him so he knows what you're doing and get used to it?
I don't know really, I dont have enough experience to advise you on any of this but i don't think you shoud stay, you deserve to be happy
You are ace Manda, if you didnt live in Yankland I'd steal you
I thought you might say that really.