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Relationship Breakup
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My boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me on wednesday, and it was a complete shock. He said his feelings had changed and wasnt sure he loved me anymore. Im 17, we're at the same college so i see him everyday. We have spoken on the phone since, just normal conversation but then i get upset and it doesnt help. I dont know what to do with myself, im hoping he will take me back, hes not certain that its over for good. Just in need of some advice on how to deal with it.
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Aw that's really shit.
My advice would be put as much distance/ space between you and him as possible. From my experience although it's hard, I've found it so much easier to get over some one if I don't have any contact with them at all.
It's a bit cliche but going out with your friends and having a good time or a girlie sesh or something helps lots as well.
Hope that helped a bit
I very much doubt he will fall in love with you again and come back to you. Better buckle up, stay strong and accept that you've been dumped. It's hard, I know, but false expectations will only make you sadder. dozens of people come here a month telling they've been dumped and so far everyone pulled through.
chin up... you'll make it too.
Guess you're feeling down right now, but the road can only go upwards