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My boyfriends been ignoring me for a week, for no reason and he's made no effort to see me. It's getting to me ALOT. I hate ignorance. He did it before a few weeks ago, for a couple of days but I think he just needed space. I must of done something wrong, right
It just feels like he doesn't care for me at all, you'd think if he thought about me he'd text to see if I'm okay and stuff, but nothing. I feel so insignificant.
It just feels like he doesn't care for me at all, you'd think if he thought about me he'd text to see if I'm okay and stuff, but nothing. I feel so insignificant.
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you didn't mention much about your relationship. is it possible, that he doesn't agree that he is your boyfriend, and its just a casual thing?
Nothings harder than telling a person who's in love with you and thinks everything is perfect that you don't want to be with her.
any sings of complaints from him? or discontent? Did he act different lately? Any quarrels or other changes?
I dunno it can be anything, either he needs a break, but then he should have asked for it, on the other hand he could have grown bored of the relationship.
In either case you should talk to him, to find out and properly handle the situation.
Have you rang or text him?
If he not replying to your calls or texts, personally I would send him one last text telling him it's finished or at the very least, he's got twenty four hours to get in contact and if not he can piss off.
My sister was with a guy recently and it seemed to be going really well then suddenly he just stopped speaking/ calling for two days then rang her at the end of the second day to tell her it's over. Men are so weird!
You might be upset now but you'll feel so much better when you know what's going on like whether it's definately on or definately off.
I agree with you its not fair and should have told you that he had loads of work on
Going through a simular situation.
Do you think he is just keeping you in reserve or do you think you will get the relationship back on track:banghead:
Ah well at least he's made contact.
Still it's not very nice being ignored and you shouldn't have to put up with it. If you really like him and don't want to split up, I suggest text him back saying something like 'Ah okay well when you're free give me a call or something x' and leave it at that until he comes to you. Then when he's back to normal talk to him about how ignoring you upsets you.