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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
(PLEASE NO SARCASTIC ANSWERS) I am a 14yr old guy and i am still square i havn't even gone out with anyone propperly (I.e gone to the cinema etc <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Please help am i just a lump of dirt that know one likes?/Am i ever going to meet that special person???

Ps: HELP!

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  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    you shouldnt worry, you're only 14! i hadnt gone out with anyone until i was 16. a lot of people dont go out with anyone until they,re 16, 18, older sometimes. believe me, you're not a freak or anything like that. you WILL find someone who likes you and who you like eventually.

    for now, you just need to calm down and just forget about this for a while, or dont let it stress you. its really nothing to worry about <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    At 14 you often feel like everyone's love life is taking off except yours. But it's not, trust me. Mine still hasn't taken off and I'm 17 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah dont worry, i didnt start having girlfriends till i was about 14...before that it was just hanging wiv mates

    Anyone who can walk to the welfare office can walk to work <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont worry m8, itl happen, at least ur keepin interested, i cant even be bother to be interested in girls ne more.

    Time if advancing slowly, feels like crap.

    Love advancing slowly, feels like a eternity diviness.

    Time advancing fast, feels great.

    Love advancing fast feels like an eternity of nothingless.

    Either way ur screwed.
  • the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    i didn't have a girlfriend until i was 16... and let me tell you, i did NOT see it coming!!

    it was worth the wait though! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Johntrevy:
    Dont worry m8, itl happen, at least ur keepin interested, i cant even be bother to be interested in girls ne more.

    well said that man, i went through a stage of thinking identical to that for about 13 months and now im being reminded as to why i did



    Anyone who can walk to the welfare office can walk to work <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey dont worry im 17 and i have my first proper bf now! at ur age i thought id never find ne one!!! it will turn out for the best in the end ne way ur only 14 u dont need the commitment!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    like everyone else has said, don't worry about it, you're still young! I didn't have my first boyfriend till 15 and some of my mates are 18 and still single. Hanve fun and stop worrying, it'll all happen soon!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont stand around hoping some girl will make an advance. I went through school thinking nobody wanted me, and now I find out out half the girls had a crush on me but were too shy/insecure to act. What a shame....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by fairy_pie:
    [ ur only 14 u dont need the commitment!![/B]

    exactly! i'm 14 2 n my ex was 19 n he wanted a long-term relationship...n honestly that's not wot i wanted cos i'm 2 young 4 that..geez i just wanna have sum fun lol nutin serious n u should 2. dont go all frantic about findin a gf just go out w/ ya mates n u'll just and if not more fun!

    luv
    me

    xxx



    i'm on my way down now - i'd like to take you with me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/FIREdevil.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont panick.I didn't go out with a lad properly till i was 14 i'm 15 now.So dont worry youre not the only one.

    Love is the answer,but while you're waiting for the answer,sex raises some pretty good questions.Woodey Allen.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm 14, i've never gone out with someone properly and at my school the only thing anyone talks about is sex and how they have been very close to doing it.

    Dispite this i really don't care and i'm happy at the moment. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    (And most of them are just lying anyway)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dude. Post. Dead

    Atificial Intelligence is no match for Natural Dumbness <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/rolleyes.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by fairy_pie:
    ur only 14 u dont need the commitment!!

    Im 16 and dont need the commitment!!!

    I LOVE being single!! Why is it such a bad thing?! Such its really nice to have a bf/gf, but its not the be-all and end-all!! Just dont worry about it- if you like someone, make a move on them, but otherwise just forget about it!! You'll probably be married for years of your life anyway, so enjoy the freedom while you can!!

    Im sure you're not doing anything wrong, the most attractive thing to girls is confidence, so just believe in yourself and ou'll be fine!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheEgoHasLanded:
    Dude. Post. Dead


    12 days is unfair for a dude. post. dead



    It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u could argue that the poster has left, so the advice in this thread is useless anyways, and since it was a specific help topic and not a discussion topic, it did seem rather useless, but hey, i'm only stirring up trouble.

    oh wait, that's what i do here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by virgin007:
    (PLEASE NO SARCASTIC ANSWERS) I am a 14yr old guy and i am still square i havn't even gone out with anyone propperly (I.e gone to the cinema etc <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Please help am i just a lump of dirt that know one likes?/Am i ever going to meet that special person???

    Ps: HELP!

    Im 15 and im an ugly ba*****
    only girl who really gives a damn lives across the atlantic
    ive kissed 4 girls in my lifetime, was crap each time, and the first time i ever thought i had a chance i was too scared to ask her name <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    you cant say youre any worse than that
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